Spalding Gray
Spalding Gray | |
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![]() Gray at thePerforming Garage(1979–81). Photograph by Gary Schoichet. | |
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Died | January 11, 2004 New York City,U.S. | (aged 62)
Resting place | Oakland Cemetery Sag Harbor, New York,U.S. |
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Years active | 1960s–2003 |
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Children | 2 |
Spalding Gray(June 5, 1941 –c. January 11, 2004) was an American actor, novelist, playwright, screenwriter andperformance artist.He is best known for the autobiographicalmonologuesthat he wrote and performed for the theater in the 1980s and 1990s, as well as for his film adaptations of these works, beginning in 1987. He wrote and starred in several, working with different directors.
Theater criticsJohn Willisand Ben Hodges called Gray's monologues "trenchant, personal narratives delivered on sparse, unadorned sets with a dry,WASP,quiet mania. "[1]: 316 Gray achieved renown for his monologueSwimming to Cambodia,which he adapted as a 1987 film in which he starred; it was directed byJonathan Demme.Other of his monologues that he adapted for film wereMonster in a Box(1991), directed byNick Broomfield,andGray's Anatomy(1996), directed bySteven Soderbergh.
Gray died by suicide at the age of 62 after jumping intoNew York Harboron January 11, 2004. He had been struggling with depression and severe injuries following a car accident. Soderbergh made a documentary film about Gray's life,And Everything Is Going Fine(2010). An unfinished monologue and a selection from his journals were published in 2005 and 2011, respectively.
Early life
[edit]Spalding Rockwell Gray was born inProvidence,Rhode Island, to Rockwell Gray Sr., the treasurer ofBrown & Sharpe,and Margaret Elizabeth "Betty" (néeHorton) Gray. He was the second of three sons; his brothers were Rockwell Jr. and Channing. They were raised in their mother'sChristian Sciencefaith. Gray and his brothers grew up inBarrington,Rhode Island, spending summers at their grandmother's house inNewport,Rhode Island. Rockwell became a literature professor atWashington University in St. Louis,and Channing a journalist in Rhode Island.[2]After graduating fromFryeburg AcademyinFryeburg, Maine,Gray enrolled atEmerson CollegeinBoston,Massachusetts,as a poetry major. He earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1963. In 1965, Gray moved toSan Francisco,California,where he became a speaker and teacher of poetry at theEsalen Institute.In 1967, while Gray was vacationing in Mexico City, his mother committed suicide at age 52. She had suffered from depression.[3]After his mother's death, Gray returned to the East Coast and settled permanently in New York City. Gray's booksImpossible VacationandSex and Death to the Age 14are largely based on his childhood and early adulthood.[citation needed]
Career
[edit]Gray began his theater career in New York in the late 1960s. In 1970, he joinedRichard Schechner's experimental troupeThe Performance Group.With actors from The Performance Group, includingWillem DafoeandElizabeth LeCompte,Gray co-founded the theater companyThe Wooster Group.He worked with it from 1975 to 1980, before leaving the company to focus on his monologue work. During this time, he also appeared inadult films,having a featured role inFarmer's Daughters(1976) and appearing inRadley Metzger'sMaraschino Cherry(1978).[4][5]He first attained prominence in the United States with the film version of his monologueSwimming to Cambodia.He had performed this monologue in New York City and published it as a book in 1985. He adapted it as a film in 1987, directed byJonathan Demme.It was based on Gray's experience in Thailand filming a small role inThe Killing Fields(1984) about the war inCambodia.[6]
In 1987, he traveled to Nicaragua withOffice of the Americas.He wrote an unproduced screenplay based on the experience. Some of his experiences there were documented inMonster in a Box.He received aGuggenheim Fellowshipand theNational Book Awardin 1985 for this work. He continued to write and perform monologues until his death. Through 1993, these works often incorporated his relationship to his girlfriendRenée Shafransky.They married and she became his collaborator.[7][8]He later married Kathleen Russo.
Gray's success with his monologues brought him various supporting movie roles. He also played the lead role of the Stage Manager in a high-profile 1988 revival ofThornton Wilder's playOur Townat theLincoln Center Theater.In 1992, Gray published his only novel,Impossible Vacation.The novel reflects elements of his life, including his mother'sChristian Scientistbeliefs,[9]hisWASPbackground, and his mother's suicide. Gray wrote a subsequent monologue,Monster in a Box,about his experiences in writing and promotingImpossible Vacation.
During an interview in 1997 with film criticEdward Vilga,Gray was asked whether the movie industry was "confused" by his writings and roles. He responded:
- I would say that my major problem with Hollywood is this—I sometimes paraphraseBob Dylan—Bob Dylan says "I may look likeRobert Ford,but I feel just likeJesse James."I say," I may look like a gynecologist, an American ambassador's aide, or a lawyer, but I feel likeWoody Allen."... My insides are not what my outsides are. I'm not who I appear to be. I appear to be aWasp Brahmin,but I'm really a sort of neurotic, perverse New York Jew. When I was performing one year ago at this time in Israel, a review came out in Hebrew aboutMonster in a Box,and it read, "Spalding Gray is funny, sometimes hilarious, wonderfully neurotic for a non-Jew." Only the Jews can say something like "wonderfully neurotic."[10]: 111
Gray's performance style relied upon an impressionistic use of memories rather than a recounting of chronological facts. Gray said his style of monologue resulted from a sort of "poetic journalism."[11]
Health problems and death
[edit]In June 2001, Gray was severely injured in a car crash while on vacation in Ireland. In the crash, he suffered a broken hip, which left his right leg almost immobilized, and a fracture in his skull.[12]During surgery on his skull, atitaniumplate was placed over the break after surgeons removed dozens of bone fragments from hisfrontal cortex,leaving a jagged scar on his forehead. He struggled to recover from his injuries and a severe depression set in some time after the accident. He had already struggled intermittently with depression.[13]Suffering both from physical impairment and ongoing depression, Gray struggled for months and was treated with a variety of different therapies.[2]
Gray sought treatment fromneurologistOliver Sacks,who began treating him in August 2003 and continued to do so almost until Gray died. Sacks later said Gray perceived the taking of his own life as part of what he had to say, with the monologuist having "talked about what he called 'a creative suicide.' On one occasion, when he was being interviewed, he thought that the interview might be culminated with a 'dramatic and creative suicide.' I was at pains to say that he would be much more creative alive than dead."[13]
On January 9, 2004, Gray had an interview with Theresa Smalec, the subject of which wasRon Vawter,a deceased friend and colleague whom he had met in the winter of 1972–73. Gray and Vawter had worked closely together throughout the 1970s, first with The Performance Group, then as core members of The Wooster Group. The edited transcript of "Spalding Gray's Last Interview" was published in 2008 by theNew England Theatre Journal.[14]
On January 11, 2004, Gray was declared missing. The night before, he had taken his children to seeTim Burton's filmBig Fish.It ends with the line, "A man tells a story over and over so many times he becomes the story. In that way, he is immortal." Gray's widow, Kathie Russo, said after he disappeared, "You know, Spalding cried after he saw that movie. I just think it gave him permission. I think it gave him permission to die."[2]
When Gray was first reported missing, his profile was featured on the Fox Network television showAmerica's Most Wanted.[15]
In early March, Gray's body was found in theEast River.[citation needed]It is believed that he jumped off theStaten Island Ferry.He had previously attempted suicide in 2002.[16]Gray was reported to have been working on a new monologue at the time of his death. There was speculation that his revisiting the material of the car crash in Ireland and his subsequent attempts to recover from his injuries might have triggered a final bout of depression.[2]
Gray was buried atOakland CemeteryinSag Harbor,New York. He was survived by his wife Kathie Russo, stepdaughter Marissa, sons Forrest Dylan[17]and Theo Spalding Gray, and brothers Rockwell and Channing Gray.
Legacy
[edit]Theater historian Don Wilmeth noted Gray's contribution to a unique style of writing and acting:
The 1980s saw the rise of the autobiographical monologue, its leading practitioner Spalding Gray, the WASP from Rhode Island who portrays himself as an innocent abroad in a crazy contemporary world... others, like Mike Feder, who grew up in Queens and began telling his life on New York radio, pride themselves on their theatrical minimalism, and simply sit and talk. Audiences come to autobiography for direct connection and great stories, both sometimes hard to find in today's theatre.[18]: 293
Describing the play-film monologue, theatre director Mark Russell wrote:
He broke it all down to a table, a glass of water, a spiral notebook and a mic. Poor theatre—a man and an audience and a story. Spalding sitting at that table, speaking into the mic, calling forth the script of his life from his memory and those notebooks. A simple ritual: part news report, part confessional, part American raconteur. One man piecing his life back together, one memory, one true thing at a time. Like all genius things, it was a simple idea turned on its axis to become absolutely fresh and radical. "[19]
Journalist and authorRoger Rosenblattdescribed Gray as
Spalding the storyteller... Spalding the mystical. Spalding the hilarious. Spalding the self-exposed, the professionally puzzled, the scared, the brave. Spalding the supporting actor. That's what he was in the movies. But as a writer and a stage performer, he changed the idea of what a supporting actor is. He supportedus... He played our part... We tacitly elect a few to be the chief tellers of our tales. Spalding was one of the elected. The specialty of his storytelling was the search for a sorrow that could be alchemized into a myth. He went for the misery sufficiently deep to create a story that makes us laugh... In so doing, he invented a form, a very rare thing among artists. Some called it the 'epic monologue' because first it was spoken and then it was written, like the old epics, and because it consisted of great and important themes drawn from the hero's life...And the one true heroic element in his makeup was the willingness to be open, rapidly open, about his confusions, his frailties. "[19]: Intro
Director Jonathan Demme said of Gray, "Spalding's unfailing ability to ignite universal emotions and laughter in all of us while gloriously wallowing in his own exquisite uniqueness will remain forever one of the great joys of American performance and literature".[19]
"He took the anarchy and illogic of life and molded it into something we could grab a hold of," said actor and novelistEric Bogosian."It took courage to do what Spalding did, courage to make theatre so naked and unadorned, to expose himself in this way and to fight his demons in public."
Theater critic Mel Gussow wrote of Gray'sSwimming to CambodiaandTerrors of Pleasure,"Through a look or a comment, he offers intelligent analysis. Though the narrative is entirely centered around Mr. Gray himself, it never suffers from self-pity or self-indulgence. He remains the antihero in his own fascinating life story, the never ending tale of EverySpalding."[20]
Posthumous works by and about him
[edit]In 2005, Gray's unfinished final monologue was published in a hardcover edition titledLife Interrupted: The Unfinished Monologue.The monologue, which Gray had performed in one of his last public appearances, is augmented by two additional pieces he performed at the time, a short remembrance called "The Anniversary" and an open letter to New York City written in the wake of theSeptember 11 attacks.Also included in the book is an extensive collection of remembrances and tributes from fellow performers and friends.
The 2007 playSpalding Gray: Stories Left to Tell,produced at the Minetta Lane Theatre in New York City, is based on his monologues and journals. Kathleen Russo, his widow, developed the concept for the play.[21]The show has a cast of four actors as well as a rotating guest artist; all five read from selected portions of his work.[21]
In January 2010,Steven Soderbergh's documentaryAnd Everything Is Going Finewas released at Utah'sSlamdance Film Festival.The film was compiled from film and video clips of Gray's early life and career. Russo said that Soderbergh "wanted Spalding to tell the story, as if it was his last monologue, and I think he accomplished that".[22]
In 2011 a selection from his journals was published asThe Journals of Spalding Gray,edited by Nell Casey, who had worked with Russo on the project.[23]Dwight Garner found this material less interesting than Gray's monologues. He said they have value as a "portrait of a theatrical coming of age" as Gray determined how to make his art. Garner wrote, "His art, these journals make clear, is what kept him alive."[24]
The 2016 season of the Independent Film Channel's mockumentary television seriesDocumentary Now!includes the episode "Parker Gail's Location is Everything," a parody of Gray'sSwimming to Cambodia.[25]In it,Bill Haderdelivers a monologue expressing his dismay at having to find a new loft apartment in New York City upon learning that his current residence will be converted into an electronics store.
Filmography
[edit]Movies written and performed by Spalding Gray
[edit]- Swimming to Cambodia(1987)
- Spalding Gray: Terrors of Pleasure(1988)
- Monster in a Box(1991)
- Gray's Anatomy(1996)
- And Everything Is Going Fine(2010)
- In addition to the five theatrically released film versions of Gray's monologues, video recordings from 1982 ofSex and Death at the Age of 14andA Personal History of the American Theaterwere released by theCriterion Collectionon the DVDs ofAnd Everything Is Going FineandGray's Anatomy,respectively.
Actor
[edit]- Cowards(1970, in a low-budget drama; it was later edited and released as an adult film,Love-In '72) - Radical at Party
- Farmer's Daughters(1976) - George
- Maraschino Cherry(1978) – uncredited[4]- Penny's Client with Beard (uncredited)
- Variety(1983) - (voice)
- The Killing Fields(1984) - U.S. Consul
- Almost You[26](1985) - Travel agent
- Seven Minutes in Heaven(1985) - Dr. Rodney
- Hard Choices[27](1985) - Terry Norfolk
- The Communists Are Comfortable[28](1985, Documentary)
- True Stories(1986) - Earl Culver
- Swimming to Cambodia(1987) - Himself
- Stars and Bars(1988) - Reverend T.J. Cardew
- Clara's Heart(1988) - Peter Epstein
- Beaches(1988) - Dr. Richard Milstein
- Spalding Gray: Terrors of Pleasure(1988) - Himself
- Heavy Petting(1989, Documentary) - Himself
- The Image[29](1990, TV Movie) - Frank Goodrich
- To Save a Child[30](1991, TV Movie) - Hobart
- Straight Talk(1992) - Dr. David Erdman
- Monster in a Box(1992) - Himself
- Twenty Bucks(1993) - Priest
- The Pickle(1993) - Doctor
- King of the Hill(1993) - Mr. Mungo
- Zelda(1993, TV Movie) - Sayre
- The Paper(1994) - Paul Bladden
- Bad Company(1995) - Walter Curl
- Beyond Rangoon(1995) - Jeremy Watt
- Drunks[31](1995) - Louis
- Glory Daze(1995) - Jack's Dad
- Buckminster Fuller: Thinking Out Loud(1996)
- Diabolique(1996)
- Gray's Anatomy(1996) - Himself
- Bliss[32](1997) - Alfred
- Coming Soon(1999) - Mr. Jennings
- Julie Johnson(2001) - Mr. Tom Miranda
- Revolution #9[33](2001) - Scooter McCrae
- Kate & Leopold(2001) - Dr. Geisler
- How High(2001) - Professor Jackson
- The Paper Mache Chase[34](2003, Short) - Dr. Calhoun (final film role)
- And Everything Is Going Fine(2010, Documentary) - Himself
Television
[edit]- Saturday Night Live(1 episode, 1977) - Narrator of 'Brides' (voice, uncredited)
- Spenser: For Hire(1 episode, 1987) - Edward Niles
- Trying Times(1 episode, 1987) - Gary
- The Nanny(9 episodes, 1997–1998) - Dr. Jack Miller
- The Mike O'Malley Show(1 episode, 1999) - Professor Beaumont
- Will & Grace(1 episode, 2000)
Bibliography
[edit]- Swimming to Cambodia(1985) – monologue
- The Nothing Issue(1985)
- Sex and Death to the Age 14(1986) – a collection of six early monologues
- In Search of the Monkey Girl(1987) – non-fiction essay
- High & Low(1988)
- Homespun(1988)
- Monster in a Box(1992) – monologue
- Impossible Vacation(1992) – novel
- Gray's Anatomy(1994) – monologue
- First Words(1996)
- It's a Slippery Slope(1997) – monologue
- Morning, Noon and Night(1999) – monologue
- Life Interrupted: The Unfinished Monologue(2005) – a monologue, a story and a letter
- The Journals of Spalding Gray,(October 2011) Knopf; edited by Nell Casey and Kathie Russo
See also
[edit]References
[edit]- ^Willis, John;Hodges, Ben (2006).Theatre World: Volume 60.Hal Leonard Corporation.
- ^abcdWilliams, Alex (February 2, 2004)."Vanishing Act".New York.RetrievedJuly 9,2008.
- ^Gaby, Wood (December 26, 2004)."Shades of Gray".The Observer.RetrievedNovember 25,2008.
- ^abConnelly, Sherilyn."Here's to the Late Spalding Gray: Monologist. Raconteur. Porn Star".SF Weekly.RetrievedJune 26,2016.
- ^"Peering Beyond a Monologist's Stage Presence Into His Uncensored Mind".The New York Times.October 18, 2011.RetrievedJune 26,2016.
- ^"Review: Swimming to Cambodia – Spalding Gray's mesmerising monologue about a messed-up world - Reader's Digest".August 21, 2020. Archived fromthe originalon August 21, 2020.RetrievedJuly 24,2022.
- ^Gray, Spalding (1992).Monster in a Box(A Vintage original, 1st ed.). New York City:Vintage Books.ISBN0679737391.
- ^Gray, Spalding (1994).Gray's Anatomy(1st ed.). New York City:Vintage Books.ISBN0679751785.
- ^Gray, Spalding (October 2, 2012).The Journals of Spalding Gray.Vintage Books.ISBN978-0-307-47491-9.
- ^Vilga, Edward (1997).Acting Now: Conversations on Craft and Career.Rutgers University Press.
- ^Gentile, John S. (1989).Cast of One: One-Person Shows from the Chautauqua Platform to the Broadway Stage.Champaign-Urbana: University of Illinois Press. p.150.ISBN9780252015847.
- ^"Spalding Gray's new reality".Chicago Tribune.March 12, 2002.
- ^abSacks, Oliver(April 27, 2015)."The Catastrophe".The New Yorker.Condé Nast.
- ^Smalec, Theresa (2008)."Spalding Gray's Last Interview".New England Theatre Journal.RetrievedSeptember 7,2009.
- ^"Spalding Gray – Missing Person".America's Most Wanted.RetrievedDecember 4,2009.
- ^"Spalding Gray's Body Is Found 2 Months After Disappearance".The New York Times.Associated Press.March 8, 2004.RetrievedMarch 2,2017.
- ^Forrest Dylan Gray
- ^Wilmeth, Don B.; Miller, Tice L. (1996).Cambridge Guide to American Theatre.Cambridge University Press.
- ^abcGray, Spalding (2005).Swimming to Cambodia.Theatre Communications Group.
- ^Gussow, Mel (May 15, 1986). "Theatre: Spalding Gray. Review of Terrors of Pleasure, by Spalding Gray".The New York Times.
- ^abBrantley, Ben(March 7, 2007)."A Master of Monologues, Living on in His Words".The New York Times.RetrievedFebruary 19,2017.
- ^"One Singular Auteur, Through Another".The New York Times.January 15, 2010.
- ^Rosenbaum, Ron (October 28, 2011)."What Spalding Gray Left Us".The 'New York Times.RetrievedFebruary 19,2017.
- ^Garner, Dwight (October 17, 2011)."Peering Beyond a Monologist's Stage Presence Into His Uncensored Mind".The New York Times.RetrievedFebruary 19,2017.
- ^"Documentary Now!" Parker Gail's Location Is Everything (TV Episode 2016) - IMDb,retrievedJune 22,2019
- ^Almost You film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^Hard Choices film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^The Communists Are Comfortable film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^The Image film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^To Save a Child film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^Drunks film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^Bliss film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^Revolution #9 film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
- ^The Paper Mache Chase film page,IMDB, accessed February 1, 2020
External links
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- Official Website
- Spalding Gray Papersand theJohn Boland Collection of Spalding Grayat theHarry Ransom Center
- Spalding GrayatIMDb
- Spalding Grayat theInternet Broadway Database
- Spalding Grayat theInternet Off-Broadway Database
- Scene fromSwimming to CambodiaonYouTubevideo, 5 minutes
- "Remembering Spalding Gray" – Fresh Air Audio Archives(NPR)
- Spalding Gray's Last Interview,Theresa Smalec,PAJ: A Journal of Performance and Art,Jan 2008, Vol. 30, No. 1, (PAJ 88): 1–14.
- Audio Interview with Mr. Gray, recorded 1996ArchivedJune 30, 2019, at theWayback Machine,conducted by Douglas Ordunio, New Millennium Records
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