White wedding
Awhite weddingis a traditionalformalorsemi-formalwedding originating in Great Britain.
The term originates from the white colour of thewedding dress,which originated withAnne of Brittanyduring her 1499 marriage toLouis XII of France.The white dress became popular withVictorian eraelites afterQueen Victoriawore a white lace dress at her1840 weddingtoPrince Albert.[1][2]The white wedding style was given another significant boost in 1981, when 750 million people watchedthe weddingofDiana SpencertoCharles, Prince of Wales,which saw her wearan elaborate white taffeta dresswith an 8 m train.[3]
The full white wedding experience today typically requires the family to arrange for or purchase printed or engravedwedding invitations,musicians, decorations such as flowers or candles, clothes and flowers forbridesmaids,groomsmen,aflower girland aring bearer.They may also add optional features such as a guest book or commemorative wedding leaflets. It is common to have a celebration after the wedding ceremony, normally featuring a largewedding cakewith white icing. The term now also encapsulates the entire Western wedding routine, especially in theChristian religious tradition,[4]which generally includes achurch serviceduring which the marriage begins, followed by areception.
“Color Wheel Pro” describes[5]white in association with light, goodness, innocence, purity and virginity. White is also often considered to be the color of perfection.[4]As for other significant meanings for white on a wedding day, “colormeaning.com” says, “In color psychology, white is the color of new beginnings — wiping the slate clean. The color white is a blank canvas, just waiting to be written on.”[6]White is the color inWestern culturemost often associated with beginnings. Religious rites and the clothing associated with them have always been important, and white is often a common color used to express high religious commitment and purity.[4]
History of the white dress and traditions
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ThoughMary, Queen of Scots,wore a white wedding gown in 1559 when she married her first husband,Francis Dauphin of France,the tradition of a white wedding dress is commonly credited toQueen Victoria'schoice to wear awhite court dress at her weddingtoPrince Albertin 1840.[7][8]Debutanteshad long been required to wear whitecourt dressesandlong white glovesfor their first presentation at court, at a "Drawing Room" where they were introduced to the queen for the first time.[7]
Royal brides before Victoria did not typically wear white, instead choosing "heavy brocaded gowns embroidered with white and silver thread," with red being a particularly popular colour in Western Europe more generally.[7]During this time, European and American brides wore a plethora of colours, including blue, yellow, and practical colours like black, brown, or gray. As accounts of Victoria's wedding spread across the Atlantic and throughout Europe, fashionable people followed her lead.
The traditional white wedding was not necessarily defined by the color of the dress only. The wedding of Queen Victoria's daughterVictoriatoPrince Fredrick William of Prussiain 1858 also introduced choral music to the processional when standard practice had been to have music of any kind only during a party after the wedding ceremony.[9]
Because of the limitations of laundering techniques before the later part of the 20th century, white dresses provided an opportunity forconspicuous consumption.They were favored primarily as a way to show the world that the bride's family was so wealthy and so firmly part of the leisure class that the bride would choose an elaborate dress that could be ruined by any sort of work or spill.[3][10]
Women were required to wear veils in many Christian churchesthrough the mid-20th century;[11]the resurgence of the wedding veil as a symbol of the bride, and its use even when not required by the bride's religion, coincided with societal emphasis on women beingmodestand well-behaved.[3]
Etiquette books then began to turn the practice into a tradition and the white gown soon became a popular symbol of status that also carried "a connotation of innocence and virginal purity."[8]The story put out about the wedding veil was that decorous brides were naturally too timid to show their faces in public until they were married.
By the end of the 19th century the white dress was the garment of choice for elite brides on both sides of the Atlantic. However, middle-class British and American brides did not adopt the trend fully until afterWorld War II.[12]With increased prosperity in the 20th century, the tradition also grew to include the practice of wearing the dress only once. As historian Vicky Howard writes, "[i]f a bride wore white in the nineteenth century, it was acceptable and likely that she wore her gown again".[8]Even Queen Victoria had her famous lace wedding dress re-styled for later use.[3]
After World War I, as full-scale formal weddings began to be desired by the mothers of brides who did not have a permanent social secretary, the position of thewedding planner,who could coordinate the printer, florist, caterer and seamstress, began to assume importance. The first edition ofBride's Magazinewas published in 1934 as a newspaper advertising insert called ‘So You're Going to Get Married!’ in a column entitled ‘To the Bride’ and its rivalModern Bridebegan publishing in 1949.
The portrayal of weddings inHollywoodmovies, particularly immediately after World War II, helped crystallize and homogenize the white wedding into a normative form.[13]
Participants
[edit]Traditional weddings require, in addition to thebrideandgroom,amarriage officiant,which is a minister, priest, pastor, vicor, rabbi, imam, or civil officer who is authorized to perform marriages and will read out of aBible,Torah,Quran,orCivil document.
Typical white weddings also include a wedding party, which consists of some or all of the following:
- Groomsmenor ushers: One or more friends or family members who assist the groom, usually men. The chief groomsman is called thebest man,and is given aplace of honor.A woman (such as the sister of the groom) is called anhonor attendant(matron of honour in the UK). A boy too young to be marriageable, but too old to be a ring bearer, is called ajunior groomsmen.
- Bridesmaids:One or more friends or family members who support the bride, usually women. The chief bridesmaid may be called amaid of honorormatron of honor.A girl too young to be marriageable, but too old to be a flower girl, is called ajunior bridesmaid.
- Flower girl:A young girl who scatters flowers in front of the bridal party.
- Ring bearer:An attendant, often a young boy, who carries the wedding rings.
Typically these positions are filled by either close friends or family members (or both) of the bride and groom; being asked to serve in these capacities is seen as an honor and typically entails some expense.
The ceremony
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When the guests arrive for a wedding, the ushers, if any, help the guests take their places. In a typical white wedding ceremony, which is derived primarily from theChristiantradition (inclusive of denominations such as Lutheranism and Anglicanism, for example), the bride and groom will stand side by side at the front of the church before thechancelthroughout most or all the ceremony. Consequently, some guests prefer to sit on the side closer to the person they know best. Typically, this means that the bride's family sits on thehouse leftand the groom's family onhouse right.The front rows are generally reserved for close family members or friends.
Some couples make a ceremony of having their grandparents, step-parents, and parents escorted to their seats immediately before the wedding procession begins. In other cases, these relatives form part of the wedding procession.
Depending on the country, her age and situation, and her personal preferences, the bride may walk alone or be escorted by her father, both of her parents, one or more relatives she wishes to honor, or the groom. In Swedish white weddings, the bride and groom usually go down the aisle together.[14]Similarly, some couples choose to have the groom escorted to the altar by his family.
Whether the bride is the first or the last of thewedding partyto enter the church varies by country. In the US, the bride is typically last, being preceded by the rest of the wedding party. In the UK, she leads the procession, followed by anybridesmaids,flower girlsandpage boys.Sometimes the groom is already present in the church; other times, he and anygroomsmenform part of the procession. The music played during this procession is commonly called awedding march,no matter what songs are played.
If the wedding is part of a religious service, then technically the service begins after the arrival of the participants, commonly with a prayer, blessing, or ritual greeting. During the ceremony, each partner in the couple makesmarriage vowsto the other in front of the marriage officiant. The ceremony might include the playing of a prelude, the singing ofhymns,andBible readings,as well asHoly Communionin accordance with theChristian marriage liturgyof the church at which the wedding is held, e.g.Lutheran,Catholic,Presbyterian,Anglican,Methodist,Baptist,Mormon,Calvinist,Unitarian,Protestant,Orthodox,etc.[15]
After the wedding ceremony itself ends, the bride, groom, officiant, and two witnesses generally go off to a side room to sign the wedding register in the United Kingdom or the state-issued marriage license in the United States. Without the signing of the register or the marriage license, a marriage has not legally occurred.
Afterward, guests may cheer the departure of the couple from the church by throwing flowerpetals,confetti,birdseed,or rice over them. Miniature containers of bubbles are often provided to guest to blow at the couple instead of throwing the previously mentioned items.
The reception
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After this, the celebrations shift to a reception at which the newly married couple, as the guests of honor, and the hosts and perhaps members of the wedding party greet the guests in areceiving line.Although now commonly called a reception no matter the style of party, wedding celebrations range from simple receptions to dinner parties to grandwedding balls.
Food is served, particularly including awedding cake.Wedding cakes are often multi-tieredlayer cakesthat are elaborately decorated with white icing. Cutting the wedding cake is often turned into a ritual, complete with sharing a symbolic bite of the cake in a rite that harks back to the paganconfarreatioweddings in ancient Rome.[16]
During the reception, a number of short speeches ortoastsmay be given in honor of the couple.
If there is dancing, the bride and groom, as the guests of honor, are expected to be the first people to begin dancing. This is usually termed thebridalwaltz,even if the couple has arranged for a different style of music. Some families then contrive a series of arranged dances between the newlyweds and their parents, or other members of the wedding party, with guests expected to watch the performances.
At some point, the married couple may become the object of acharivari,a good-natured hazing of the newly married couple. The nature depends upon the circumstances. The guests might tie tin cans or a sign saying "Just Married" to the bumper of the couple's car, if they depart in their own car rather than a hired one.
As the guests of honor, the newly married couple is the first to leave the party. From ancient Rome through the Middle Ages in Europe, wheat kernels were thrown at the bride in a wish for affluence; now it is typical to throw rice, as a symbol of fertility, at the couple as they depart.[16]
Gallery
[edit]Photographs from late 19th century, early 20th century, and early 21st century weddings. The first two images show the bride in a black or dark dress. The photographic styles of capturing weddings continues to evolve from posed somber expressions to candid moments showing emotion and joy.
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See also
[edit]References
[edit]- ^"Why do brides wear white?".theconversation.com.4 September 2020.
- ^"Why Do Brides Wear White?".britannica.com.Retrieved7 September2021.[1]
- ^abcdIngrassia, Catherine (2007)."Diana, Martha and Me".In Curran, Colleen (ed.).Altared: Bridezillas, Bewilderment, Big Love, Breakups, and What Women Really Think about Contemporary Weddings.New York: Vintage Books. pp.24–30.ISBN978-0-307-27763-3.
- ^abc"5 special occasions when you should wear white".deseret.com.2 December 2018.
- ^"Color Meaning".color-wheel-pro.com.Archived fromthe originalon 6 September 2021.Retrieved7 September2021.
- ^"White Color Meaning: The Color White Symbolizes Purity and Innocence".color-meanings.com.10 March 2013.Retrieved7 September2021.
- ^abcOtnes, Cele & Pleck, Elizabeth (2003).Cinderella Dreams: the Allure of the Lavish Wedding.Berkeley: University of California Press. p.31.ISBN9780520240087.
- ^abcHoward, Vicky (2006).Brides Inc.: American Weddings and the Business of Tradition.Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press. pp. 157–159.
- ^Pleck, Elisabeth (2000).Celebrating the Family: Ethnicity, Consumer Culture and Family Rituals.Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press. p.212.
- ^Ramshaw, Gail (6 September 2004).Words around the Font.Wipf and Stock Publishers. p. 111.ISBN9781592449255.[2]
- ^Gordon, Greg (31 August 2015)."Are Head Coverings Really for Today?".Evangelical Focus.Retrieved2 May2022.
Hippolytus an early Church Father wrote, "Let all the women have their heads covered." Others who taught this practice in the Church were, John Calvin [father of the Reformed tradition], Martin Luther [father of the Lutheran tradition], Early Church Fathers, John Wesley [father of the Methodist tradition], Matthew Henry [Presbyterian theologian] to name just a few. We must remind ourselves that until the twentieth century, virtually all Christian women wore head coverings.
- ^Jellison, Katherine (2008).It's Our Day: America's Love Affair with the White Wedding, 1945–2005.Lawrence: University Press of Kansas. pp. 65–67.
- ^Martin, Judith (2005).Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior.New York: Norton. p. 371.ISBN0-393-05874-3.
The supposition behind these questions is that a wedding is a set piece, with rigidly prescribed roles....The pattern that so many modern brides apparently have in mind can be traced to Hollywood, California, circa 1948.
- ^"Vigselakten"[The Wedding Ceremony]. brollopstorget.se. Archived fromthe originalon 10 July 2010.Retrieved22 March2010.
Det vanligaste nuförtiden i Sverige är att brud och brudgum går in i kyrkan tillsammans.
- ^Yrigoyen, Charles Jr.; Warrick, Susan E. (7 November 2013).Historical Dictionary of Methodism.Scarecrow Press. p. 236.ISBN978-0-8108-7894-5.
In Methodism, the sacred service celebrates a covenenat grounded in the will of God and sustained by divine grace.... Methodism encourages the solemnization of marriages within the context of congregational worship and eucharistic celebration.
- ^abChisholm, Hugh,ed. (1911). "Bride".Encyclopædia Britannica.Vol. 4 (11th ed.). Cambridge University Press. p. 528.
External links
[edit]- Neil Shister, "Queen for a Day... a skeptical look at the modern wedding ritual"Archived25 October 2004 at theWayback MachinefromBoston Review,October/November 1998