Parting stone

Aparting stoneis a monument, usually of stone, to either:

1. Provide direction at afork in the road—apartingof the way, or
2. Commemorate a final parting, as from a loved one.

Directions

The 1744 Roxbury Parting Stone, fitted here with an iron stake from which a lantern could be hung

A directing parting stone shows where each leg of a road fork leads.

The earliest Massachusettslegislation pertaining to guide-posts was on February 28, 1795. In it, theselectmenwere required to erect guide-posts at the corners and angles of all roads in their towns and districts, Before that time, some individuals had set up roadside stones marking the distance or direction to some important town.

Numerous such stones were set byPaul Dudley,Chief-Justice of Massachusetts, as they bear his name or initials. It was not uncommon for well-to-do eighteenth century men to placemilestonesby the roadside along main thoroughfares for the convenience of travelers.

One well known example of a Dudley stone is theRoxburyParting Stone, known locally as simply the Parting Stone. It is located near the Norfolk House, at the corner of Centre and Roxbury Streets, onEliot Square. On its front or easterly face is inscribed"The / Parting / Stone / 1744 / P Dudley",with the directions on the south and north faces of"to / Dedham / x Rhode / Island"and"to / Cambridge / Watertown"respectively.

Memorials

A memorial parting stone may be erected, for example, at the departure point of a loved one's final journey. An example can be found in England'sLake DistrictatGrisedale Tarn. Known as the Brothers Parting Stone, it marks the place at which William Wordsworthlast saw his brother John. Hardwicke Rawnsleyerected a stone in 1882 with the inscription:

Here did we stop; and here looked round

While each into himself descends,

For that last thought of parting Friends

That is not to be found.

Brother and friend, if verse of mine

Have power to make thy virtues known,

Here let a monumental Stone

Stand–sacred as a Shrine

See also

• Boundary marker
• Ghost bike
• Roadside memorial
• Roxbury Parting Stone at WikiMedia Commons