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Salma bint Amr

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Salmā bint ʿAmr(Arabic:سلمى بنت عمرو) was the wife ofHashim ibn Abd Manaf,thus the great-grandmother ofIslamic prophetMuhammad.She was one of the most influential women of theBanu Khazrajtribe and the daughter of ‘Amr ofBanu Najjarclan, one of the tribes in Medina. She traded and dealt with the caravans on her own behalf.

Salmā bint ʿAmr
سلمى بنت عمرو
Born
Salmā bint ʿAmr

Died
Yathrib,Hijaz
Notable workMerchant
SpouseHashim ibn Abd Manaf
Children
Relatives
FamilyBanu Najjarfrom (Khazraj tribe)

Marriage

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Hashim ibn ‘Abd Manaf used to pass throughYathrib(Medina) every year and hold a market at Suq al-Nabt; his attention was caught by Salma's jovial and authoritative manner of trading, and began to make tactful inquiries about her. He soon found out she was well-known and respected, and much sought-after – so much so that she had previously chosen husbands and divorced them as she pleased, and she chose only the best. She was a powerful woman who enjoyed her own position and tribal prestige, and had no intention of abandoning her home establishment and family group. She remained in her own household, and had marriages with those of the men who sought her out.

One of Salma's husbands was the warrior-chief Uhayhah ibn Julah of Banu Jahjaba, a leading celebrity in the tribal fighting of thepre-Islamic period,who possessed one of the largest fortresses in Quba on the outskirts ofYathrib,the Utum ad-Dihyan. Salma had two sons by him, Amr and Mabad. Another of her husbands was her relative Malik ibn Adiy of theBanu Najjar,by whom she had two daughters, Mulaykah and Nuwwar. Yet another was Awf ibn Abdu’l Awf ibn Abd ibn Harith ibn Zuhrah, by whom she had the daughter Shifa bint Awf.[1]

Hashim's own reputation was such that he did not expect Salma to be anything other than honoured and pleased by his proposal. However, he soon discovered to his chagrin that although she was certainly prepared to consider him, she would only marry him on her own terms, the chief being that he consented to let her remain in her own home in Yathrib, controlling her own affairs and business entirely on her own as she was used to, not going with him toMakkahto join his household, and when they had a son, she kept the boy with her in Yathrib until he was 14 years old or more.[2][3]

Hashim accepted, and the wedding took place, with the arrangement that both of them should continue to conduct their lives as before, but Hashim would visit and stay in her house whenever he came to Yathrib, the arrangement suited both of them. He spent some time with her then he left forAs-Sham(present daySyria) again while she was pregnant.

Children

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Salma gave birth to‘Abdul-Muttalibin 497 CE and named him Shaiba meaning ‘the ancient one’ or ‘white-haired’ for the streak of white hair amidst his jet-black hair on his head.[4]

Once again, discussions took place. Her husband longed to have their son with him in Makkah as soon as he was weaned, but Salma neither wished to be parted from him, nor for herself to go and live in his household, so she insisted that his education should remain her responsibility, and that he should stay in the Yathrib oasis to be brought up in her father's house. Once again, Hashim consented. None of Hashim's family in Makkah learned of his birth at the time. Shortly after this Salma bore Hashim a second child, a daughter, Ruqaiyyah.[1]Her husband died after falling ill on a journey returning from a business tour to Syria inGaza,and Holy Land.

Her brother-in-lawMutallibwent to see Shaiba when he was about eight years old and asked Salma to entrust Shaiba in his care. Salma was unwilling to let her son go and the boy refused to leave his mother without her consent. Mutallib then pointed out that the possibilities Yathrib had to offer were incomparable to Makkah. Salma was impressed with his arguments, so she agreed to let him go.[3]

Her important descendants

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Quraysh tribe
Waqida bint AmrAbd Manaf ibn QusaiĀtikah bint Murrah
Nawfal ibn Abd Manaf‘Abd ShamsBarraHalaMuṭṭalib ibn Abd ManafHashimSalma bint Amr
Umayya ibn Abd ShamsʿAbd al-Muṭṭalib
HarbAbū al-ʿĀsʿĀminahʿAbdallāhHamzaAbī ṬālibAz-Zubayral-ʿAbbāsAbū Lahab
ʾAbī Sufyān ibn Harbal-ḤakamʿUthmānʿAffānMUHAMMAD
(Family tree)
Khadija bint KhuwaylidʿAlī
(Family tree)
Khawlah bint Ja'farIbn Abbas
Muʿāwiyah IMarwān IʿUthmān ibn ʿAffānRuqayyaFatimahMuhammad ibn al-HanafiyyahʿAli ibn ʿAbdallāh
SufyanidsMarwanidsal-Ḥasanal-Ḥusayn
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Abu Hasim
(Imām ofal-MukhtārandHashimiyya)
Muhammad
"al-Imām"

(Abbasids)
Ibrāhim "al-Imām"al-Saffāḥal-Mansur

See also

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References

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  1. ^abMaqsood, Ruqaiyyah Waris."The Prophet's Family Line No. 4 – Amr (Hashim), the Founder of the Hashimites".Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood Dawah. Archived fromthe originalon 30 May 2008.Retrieved4 August2011.
  2. ^Ibn Kathir 1.131, from Zuhri, suggests Hashim stayed in her father’s house
  3. ^abLings, Martin (1983).Muhammad: His Life Based on the Earliest Sources.George Allen & Unwin.p. 8.ISBN0946621330.
  4. ^Ibn Hisham 1/137; Rahmat- ul- lil’alameen 1/26,2/24