Ndoa
Ndoani muungano kati yawatuwawili au zaidi unaokubaliwa na kuheshimiwa najamii.Tukio la kuanzisha ndoa linaitwaharusi,na kabla ya ndoa kunikipindi cha uchumbaambapo watu hao wawili walio kubaliana wanachunguzana tabia na kujifunza au kujuana zaidi baina yao. Kama watu wanaohusika wakikomesha ndoa yao kisheria, hali hii inaitwatalaka.
Katikautamaduniwanchinyingi uhusiano huo ni kati yamwanamumemmoja namwanamkemmoja tu na unalengaustawiwao nauzaziwawatotokatikafamilia.
Katika nchi nyingine, hasa zaKiislamuna zaAfrika,inakubalika ndoa kati ya watu wawili ambao mmojawapo ana au anaweza kuwa na mwenzi au wenzi wengine pia (mitaraau upali), hususan ndoa ya mwanamume mmoja na wanawake zaidi ya mmoja. Kumbe kwingine, hasaUlaya,hilo nikosa la jinai.
Mara nyingiharusiinafanyika kwaibadamaalumu kadiri yadiniya wahusika.
Baadhi yamadhehebuyaKikristoyanatazama ndoa kati yawabatizwawawili kuwasakramenti:rejeaNdoa (sakramenti).HasaKanisa Katolikilinaamini ndoa haiwezi kuvunjwa kwa talaka kutokana na kauli yaYesu:"Mungu alichokiunganisha, binadamu asikitenganishe" (Mk10:9).
Suala la ndoa ya jinsia moja
[hariri|hariri chanzo]Tangumwaka2000idadiinayozidi kuongezeka ya nchi zimeanza kuruhusu ndoa kati ya watu wawili wajinsiamoja.Kumbe nchi nyingine zinapinga vikali jaribio hilo kama kinyume chadininadesturiau hatamaumbileyenyewe.Tabiazakingonokati yawanyamawa jinsia moja zimeonekana katikaspishi500 hividunianikote,[1][2]lakini wanaosema kuwaushogani kinyume cha maumbile wanamaanisha maumbile ya binadamu yanayotakiwa kuongozwa naakilinautashi,sisilikatu kama ilivyo kwaviumbehaiwengine wote. Kwa mfano, wanyama wanazaliana hata wakiwa na undugu, kwa mfano mama na mtoto, lakini kwa binadamu haifai. Vilevileubakajiunafanywa na wanyama mbalimbali, lakini kwa binadamu haufai kabisa kwa sababu unasababisha mwathiriwa asiyekubali apitie uchungu na mateso. Hiyo ndiyo sababujamiiiliyostaarabikahaiwezi kuuvumilia ubakaji; waathiriwa na wote ambao wangeweza kuwa waathiriwa wanapaswa kulindwa wasibakwe. Ulinganisho huo wa ndoa ya jinsia moja na ubakaji si kamili kwa kuwa hauhusishi mwathiriwa asiyekubali, anayelazimika kuvumilia uchungu na mateso, na pengine, badala yake wapenzi wa jinsia moja ambao wanazuiwa kuoana wanajisikia uchungu. Hata hivyo, inabidi kulindamaadiliya jamii ili iweze kustawi dhidi ya tamaa zisizoijenga.
Takwimuzinaonyesha kwamba katikandoa za jinsia mojauaminifuwamoyonina wamwilinini mdogo kuliko katika ndoa za jinsiambili.[3]
Uchunguzi mwingi umeonyesha kwamba wanaume waliofunga ndoa za jinsia moja wana kiwango cha talaka cha chini kidogo kikilinganishwa na kile cha watu waliofunga ndoa za jinsia mbili.[4][5]Ndoa za wanaume wawili zinasedeka kushinda zile za jinsia mbili na zile za wanawake wawili.[6]
Kiwango cha juu cha talaka kati ya wanawake kinapatana na takwimu zinazoonyesha kwamba kwa ujumla wanawake ndio wanaoanzisha talaka zilizo nyingi.[7][8]
Vilevile utafiti fulani umehusianisha kuhalalishwa kwa ndoa za jinsia moja na upungufu mkubwa wa kiwango cha kujaribukujiuakwa watoto.[9][10][11]
Hata hivyo, nchi nyingi, hasa za Afrika, hazikubali ndoa za jinsia moja. Sheria za nchi nyingine zinawapa watu wawili wa jinsia moja wanaoishi pamoja hakikaribu zilezile za watu wa ndoa, lakini zinakwepa kuita miungano hiyo "ndoa".
Tanbihi
[hariri|hariri chanzo]- ↑Bagemihl, Bruce (1999).Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity.St. Martin's Press.ISBN978-0-312-25377-6.
- ↑Harrold, Max (1999-02-16)."Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity".The Advocate,reprinted in Highbeam Encyclopedia.Iliwekwa mnamo2007-09-10.
- ↑Symons suggests that all men are innately disposed to want sexual variation and that the difference between heterosexual and homosexual men is that homosexual men can find willing partners more often for casual sex, and thus satisfy this innate desire for sexual variety. Harris, C. R. (2002). "Sexual and romantic jealousy in heterosexual and homosexual adults". Psychological Science. 13 (1): 7–12. doi:10.1111/1467-9280.00402.PMID 11892782.
- ↑Marian Jones (1 Mei 1997)."Lessons from a Gay Marriage: Despite stereotypes of gay relationships as short-lived, gay unions highlight the keys to success".Psychology Today.Iliwekwa mnamo20 Aprili2011.
{{cite web}}:CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑Andersson, Gunnar (Februari 2006)."The Demographics of Same-Sex 'Marriages' in Norway and Sweden"(PDF).Demography.43(1): 79–98.doi:10.1353/dem.2006.0001.Ilihifadhiwa kwenye nyaraka kutokachanzo(PDF)mnamo 2009-03-25.Iliwekwa mnamo2018-06-07.
{{cite journal}}:Unknown parameter|dead-url=ignored (|url-status=suggested) (help)CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑EL."Marital Bliss? Gender Gaps..."Gender Across Borders.Ilihifadhiwa kwenye nyaraka kutokachanzomnamo 2015-12-27.Iliwekwa mnamo26 Desemba2015.
{{cite web}}:CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑In the Netherlands of the 580 lesbian couples who were married in 2005, 30% were divorced ten years later compared to 18% for heterosexual couples and 15% for gay male couples.Janene Pieters (1 Machi 2016)."Marriages Between Women Most Likely To End In Divorce".NL Times.Iliwekwa mnamo17 Mei2018.
{{cite web}}:CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑Marian Jones (1 Mei 1997)."Lessons from a Gay Marriage: Despite stereotypes of gay relationships as short-lived, gay unions highlight the keys to success".Psychology Today.Iliwekwa mnamo20 Aprili2011.
{{cite web}}:CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑"Difference-in-Differences Analysis of the Association Between State Same-Sex Marriage Policies and Adolescent Suicide Attempts".Journal of the American Medical Association: Pediatrics.
- ↑"Study: Teen suicide attempts fell as same-sex marriage was legalized".USA Today.Februari 20, 2017.
{{cite web}}:CS1 maint: date auto-translated (link) - ↑"Same-sex marriage laws linked to fewer youth suicide attempts, new study says".PBS.Februari 20, 2017.
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