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My Dearest Friend: Letters of Abigail and John Adams
In 1762, John Adams penned a flirtatious note to "Miss Adorable," the 17-year-old Abigail Smith. In 1801, Abigail wrote to wish her husband John a safe journey as he headed home to Quincy after serving as president of the nation he helped create. The letters that span these nearly forty years form the most significant correspondence--and reveal one of the most intriguing and inspiring partnerships--in American history.
As a pivotal player in the American Revolution and the early republic, John had a front-row seat at critical moments in the creation of the United States, from the drafting of the Declaration of Independence to negotiating peace with Great Britain to serving as the first vice president and second president under the U.S. Constitution. Separated more often than they were together during this founding era, John and Abigail shared their lives through letters that each addressed to "My Dearest Friend," debating ideas and commenting on current events while attending to the concerns of raising their children (including a future president).
Full of keen observations and articulate commentary on world events, these letters are also remarkably intimate. This new collection--including some letters never before published--invites readers to experience the founding of a nation and the partnership of two strong individuals, in their own words. This is history at its most authentic and most engaging.
As a pivotal player in the American Revolution and the early republic, John had a front-row seat at critical moments in the creation of the United States, from the drafting of the Declaration of Independence to negotiating peace with Great Britain to serving as the first vice president and second president under the U.S. Constitution. Separated more often than they were together during this founding era, John and Abigail shared their lives through letters that each addressed to "My Dearest Friend," debating ideas and commenting on current events while attending to the concerns of raising their children (including a future president).
Full of keen observations and articulate commentary on world events, these letters are also remarkably intimate. This new collection--including some letters never before published--invites readers to experience the founding of a nation and the partnership of two strong individuals, in their own words. This is history at its most authentic and most engaging.
528 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 1840
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Abigail Adams
56 books65 followersAbigail Adams was the wife and closest advisor of John Adams, the second president of the United States, and the mother of John Quincy Adams, the sixth president of the United States. She was a founder of the United States, and was both the first second lady and second first lady of the United States, although such titles were not used at the time. She and Barbara Bush are the only two women in American history who were both married to a U.S. president and the mother of a U.S. president.
Adams's life is one of the most documented of the first ladies; many of the letters she wrote to her husband John Adams while he was in Philadelphia as a delegate in the Continental Congress prior and during the American Revolution document the closeness and versatility of their relationship. John Adams frequently sought the advice of Abigail on many matters, and their letters are filled with intellectual discussions on government and politics. Her letters also serve as eyewitness accounts of the American Revolutionary War home front.
Surveys of historians conducted periodically by the Siena College Research Institute since 1982 have consistently found Adams to rank as one of the three most highly regarded first ladies by historians.
Adams's life is one of the most documented of the first ladies; many of the letters she wrote to her husband John Adams while he was in Philadelphia as a delegate in the Continental Congress prior and during the American Revolution document the closeness and versatility of their relationship. John Adams frequently sought the advice of Abigail on many matters, and their letters are filled with intellectual discussions on government and politics. Her letters also serve as eyewitness accounts of the American Revolutionary War home front.
Surveys of historians conducted periodically by the Siena College Research Institute since 1982 have consistently found Adams to rank as one of the three most highly regarded first ladies by historians.
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December 10, 2008
As interesting reading material, I'll say that this collection of letters varied from five stars to negative -100. Since I'm not offered the amount of stars that I feel would allow me to properly and completely describe my rollercoastering level of interest, I'll have to settle for three. Perhaps we could have a "choose your own description" for each star end? Like, "one=I'd rather chop onions for a day while being forced to listen to Its a Small World on Repeat than read /that/ letter again," to "five=AAAARGH, why wasn't that letter longer, I feel like someone just stole an awesome twist ending from me, how could you do that??"
If nothing else, I hope the rant above at least gave you the idea that this collection of letters does give one a very complete picture of the course of John and Abigail's relationship, from their courtship to their retirement. I was surprised in some instances by aspects of their relationship. They are always presented the same way: as a solid husband and wife team, as a case for equality in republic still dictated by lots of hypocrisy. Honestly, I think it took a long time and a lot of hard work for that to be true, and even then it was not universally so. Abigail seemed like any other young wife of her time, and innumerous are the occasions in which she either bends to John's will, or allows him to yell at her and run roughshod over her on any number of issues. For instance- her famous "Remember the Ladies," letter, in which she urges for female equality under the law, and female education. John made a joke out of it and laughed at it. According to the book, this pissed her off, but she didn't say more than a word about it in her next letter, and that was the end of that. He chastises her for complaining about him not writing from Europe and yells at her for telling him about his troubles, claming that she's only doing it to make him feel guilty, then preemptively writes an angry letter cautioning her not to feel jealous of the European ladies or he'll think her ridiculous, at her age, to think such a thing (in a really angry way), etc. I'm just saying... not so equal. At least, not until John becaame President. Even as Vice President, their correspondence remained largely about the children and the farm, and issues under the "women's purview." She certainly grows into herself, and her discourses on various Capital Lettered Virtues are interesting, but they are few and far between. Its just an interesting contrast to the way that they are generally presented.
That all said, this book is worth it in that it does give such up front, eye witness accounts of the Revolution. There's one particularly thrilling letter of Abigail's that takes place within hearing and sight distance of a battle outside Boston that raged on for days, while cannon fire shook the house each night. It also gives an idea of the kind of people who were forging this revolution- farmers, shopkeepers, lawyers, people who had families to support. These people did not have independent means.
Sometimes I think that we forget that while John Adams was helping with a Declaration of Independence, his children still had to eat. Their struggles balancing high principled actions and necessity are extremely interesting. It is also worth it because of the geniune (sometimes silly and over the top) love that these two people had for each other, even after thirty years of marriage, how much they wanted to be in each other's lives, mine each other's thoughts and feelings, couldn't wait for each minute that they spent in each other's company, warts, complaints and all.
If nothing else, I hope the rant above at least gave you the idea that this collection of letters does give one a very complete picture of the course of John and Abigail's relationship, from their courtship to their retirement. I was surprised in some instances by aspects of their relationship. They are always presented the same way: as a solid husband and wife team, as a case for equality in republic still dictated by lots of hypocrisy. Honestly, I think it took a long time and a lot of hard work for that to be true, and even then it was not universally so. Abigail seemed like any other young wife of her time, and innumerous are the occasions in which she either bends to John's will, or allows him to yell at her and run roughshod over her on any number of issues. For instance- her famous "Remember the Ladies," letter, in which she urges for female equality under the law, and female education. John made a joke out of it and laughed at it. According to the book, this pissed her off, but she didn't say more than a word about it in her next letter, and that was the end of that. He chastises her for complaining about him not writing from Europe and yells at her for telling him about his troubles, claming that she's only doing it to make him feel guilty, then preemptively writes an angry letter cautioning her not to feel jealous of the European ladies or he'll think her ridiculous, at her age, to think such a thing (in a really angry way), etc. I'm just saying... not so equal. At least, not until John becaame President. Even as Vice President, their correspondence remained largely about the children and the farm, and issues under the "women's purview." She certainly grows into herself, and her discourses on various Capital Lettered Virtues are interesting, but they are few and far between. Its just an interesting contrast to the way that they are generally presented.
That all said, this book is worth it in that it does give such up front, eye witness accounts of the Revolution. There's one particularly thrilling letter of Abigail's that takes place within hearing and sight distance of a battle outside Boston that raged on for days, while cannon fire shook the house each night. It also gives an idea of the kind of people who were forging this revolution- farmers, shopkeepers, lawyers, people who had families to support. These people did not have independent means.
Sometimes I think that we forget that while John Adams was helping with a Declaration of Independence, his children still had to eat. Their struggles balancing high principled actions and necessity are extremely interesting. It is also worth it because of the geniune (sometimes silly and over the top) love that these two people had for each other, even after thirty years of marriage, how much they wanted to be in each other's lives, mine each other's thoughts and feelings, couldn't wait for each minute that they spent in each other's company, warts, complaints and all.
August 19, 2008
Politics, history, loss, adventure, love, and the great lost art of truly beautiful letter-writing are all in this collection of letters between Abigail and John Adams. I would not have been a good wife for John Adams, but I don't know anyone who wouldn't enjoy a letter containing some of John's beautiful statements like, "I am as impatient to see you as I used to be twenty year ago." (p. 337)
I expected to enjoy these letters as an interesting bit of history -- and there is some fascinating history in these letters, including John's seemingly endless snarkiness about Thomas Jefferson. But what really struck me about these letters is the incredibly personal nature of these letters, and how difficult it must have been to participate in a marriage that meant months, if not years, apart, with no way to communicate other than the unreliable mail service. In one particularly touching letter, Abigail writes to John that their daughter has been stillborn -- it's hard not to imagine her grief in sitting to write that letter, or his grief in reading her letter and hearing about the loss of his daughter.
The editors of this collection do a great job of briefly setting the scene (explaining necessary details like names or chronology), then getting out of the way and letting the letters speak for themselves. One thing that takes some getting used to is remembering that it might take weeks if not months for the letters to make it back and forth -- the letters are presented chronologically as they are written, which might mean several letters in a row that do not have replies. Included in the collection is a very helpful chronology at the back of the book (just in case you don't remember every lesson from your American history classes) and a beautiful epilogue in which John Quincy Adams writes to his father after hearing of Abigail's death. John Adams writes back to his son, "Love to your Wife. May you never experience her Loss."
Sigh...I can't help but mourn the loss of men who can actually write. Text messages just don't cut it, boys.
I expected to enjoy these letters as an interesting bit of history -- and there is some fascinating history in these letters, including John's seemingly endless snarkiness about Thomas Jefferson. But what really struck me about these letters is the incredibly personal nature of these letters, and how difficult it must have been to participate in a marriage that meant months, if not years, apart, with no way to communicate other than the unreliable mail service. In one particularly touching letter, Abigail writes to John that their daughter has been stillborn -- it's hard not to imagine her grief in sitting to write that letter, or his grief in reading her letter and hearing about the loss of his daughter.
The editors of this collection do a great job of briefly setting the scene (explaining necessary details like names or chronology), then getting out of the way and letting the letters speak for themselves. One thing that takes some getting used to is remembering that it might take weeks if not months for the letters to make it back and forth -- the letters are presented chronologically as they are written, which might mean several letters in a row that do not have replies. Included in the collection is a very helpful chronology at the back of the book (just in case you don't remember every lesson from your American history classes) and a beautiful epilogue in which John Quincy Adams writes to his father after hearing of Abigail's death. John Adams writes back to his son, "Love to your Wife. May you never experience her Loss."
Sigh...I can't help but mourn the loss of men who can actually write. Text messages just don't cut it, boys.
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March 9, 2024
Well, it took me long enough to get through this book, but I savored it and loved every moment of it. John and Abigail loved God, loved each other, and stayed true to their principles no matter what they faced. Were they perfect? No. However, I find them the most inspiring couple in history.
February 20, 2012
I really took my time to read this book and so enjoyed it. There are 1,167 original letters that remain today between John and Abigail Adams. They had such an incredible love story and throughout his political journey, he looked to Abigail as his greatest confidant and political resource. He consulted her in all matters and despite grueling years apart, their love and marriage survived. I have wanted to read this book forever and it did not disappoint. I would caution other readers that if you do not have a good background surrounding these two individuals or the amazing times in which they lived the book may leave you wanting as it does not always provide a detailed context for the periods in which they are writing. If you do know anything about this period in history, I highly recommend it. I loved this!!
February 17, 2021
Interesting book. Separated more often than they were together during this founding era, John and Abigail shared their lives through letters.
February 16, 2009
I love Abigail Adams because, while she believed women were the equal to men intelligence, she didn't fall into the feminist trap of believing women identical to men. She followed her faith, believing very strongly that her place in life was to support her husband (even when she didn't necessarily agree with his viewpoint) and to care for her family. Which she did, running their farm and holding things together while he was away fighting for America's freedom. She was a true lady all her life and an awe-inspiring role model. These letters are an intriguing glimpse not only of America's beginning, but also of a genuine and lasting love affair between two amazing people.
March 21, 2020
The Adams' family is one of my favorite to read about and this collection of letters between John and Abigail Adams was simply wonderful. Their lives defined early U.S. history and their thoughts about all the major events was fascinating. Of course they share a great deal of emotion as well and it was a lot of fun living vicariously through the letters.
The book also made me think of the sacrifices they made as a couple for the country. The fact that there are so many letters between them is significant in itself as it shows how many years they spent apart as John represented the country in Europe and then as V.P. and President. Truly amazing lives.
The book also made me think of the sacrifices they made as a couple for the country. The fact that there are so many letters between them is significant in itself as it shows how many years they spent apart as John represented the country in Europe and then as V.P. and President. Truly amazing lives.
April 14, 2011
The letters are lovely and a really interesting peak into the Adams' relationship, but an opportunity was missed to heighten the experience with a little editorial context. What were the secret happenings in the Continental Congress that John alluded to but couldn't spell out in so many of his letters? What was happening in the world when Abigail wrote to John that the price of molasses had skyrocketed? Presented in their nearly naked form, they will appear to some casual readers, but probably more to the casual historian.
July 30, 2009
This is a collection of 289 of the letters between Abigail and John from 1762 to 1801 when they finally retired to their farm at Braintree. While it is satisfying to read the letters in their own right, the reader who is familiar with the history of the time will find this book particularly interesting.
From early in their marriage, John's work as a "founding father" kept them apart for months and sometimes years. Their letters were their connection, and the editors have chosen letters that illustrate the enduring love, political views, family joys and frustrations, and the mundane details of the daily lives of one of history's most famous couples.
John Adams is well known to many by way of his biographies. Abigail is often portrayed as his intelligent and supportive companion, but her true character cannot come through in those books as it does in these letters. She was left to manage the farm and household, raise and educate the children, and take care of aging parents. During the years John was in Europe, many months sometimes passed in which letters did not arrive. He was not paid at all for his work before the government was formed and was not well paid even as president. Abigail had to meet the financial challenges. She still managed to be well educated generally and in the issues of the time, and letters express her opinions and advice.
I recommend this book especially for readers interested in the way of life and the lives of a family who gave much to the formation of the United States.
From early in their marriage, John's work as a "founding father" kept them apart for months and sometimes years. Their letters were their connection, and the editors have chosen letters that illustrate the enduring love, political views, family joys and frustrations, and the mundane details of the daily lives of one of history's most famous couples.
John Adams is well known to many by way of his biographies. Abigail is often portrayed as his intelligent and supportive companion, but her true character cannot come through in those books as it does in these letters. She was left to manage the farm and household, raise and educate the children, and take care of aging parents. During the years John was in Europe, many months sometimes passed in which letters did not arrive. He was not paid at all for his work before the government was formed and was not well paid even as president. Abigail had to meet the financial challenges. She still managed to be well educated generally and in the issues of the time, and letters express her opinions and advice.
I recommend this book especially for readers interested in the way of life and the lives of a family who gave much to the formation of the United States.
December 20, 2013
Really interesting to read the letters of John and Abigail Adams to each other over the course of the formative years of the United States.
As a history buff, their perspectives on different historical events are intriguing. Even more so, as a wife, their letters reminded me how privilege we are to have easy communication.
Most letters began by telling the other which letter had just been received (and it was never the one that had most recently been written). Additionally, they went through many, many often lengthy separations to allow John to serve the early United States, in the Continental Congress, in Europe during and after the Revolutionary War, and then as VP and President. Most difficult were the 18 months John was in Europe, followed by nearly 5 years in Europe, both separated from Abigail. One year she only received 3 letters from him, and they often took 3-4 months to arrive.
Quite a fascinating couple, and a great collection of early American history in these letters.
As a history buff, their perspectives on different historical events are intriguing. Even more so, as a wife, their letters reminded me how privilege we are to have easy communication.
Most letters began by telling the other which letter had just been received (and it was never the one that had most recently been written). Additionally, they went through many, many often lengthy separations to allow John to serve the early United States, in the Continental Congress, in Europe during and after the Revolutionary War, and then as VP and President. Most difficult were the 18 months John was in Europe, followed by nearly 5 years in Europe, both separated from Abigail. One year she only received 3 letters from him, and they often took 3-4 months to arrive.
Quite a fascinating couple, and a great collection of early American history in these letters.
January 27, 2013
Abigail Adams is my new heroine. I love the humor, the intelligence, the pathos that she possess and how easily it is to relate to this woman. But what makes it even better is that John loved her too! Take that, people who say that marriage to one person for a lifetime is impossible! And they spent so much time away from each other. . . and it still worked! Reading this book is an immersion into the culture, the worries, the lives and the love of the Adams.
All this definitely came at a price. You see this as their children grow older. Also, it rather deepens your guilt if you aren't a good record keeper. As I read this, I was torn between wishing that they had enjoyed the benefit of telephones. But at the same time if they had used telephones, they wouldn't have left behind these wonderful records.
P. S. Check out the sly little references in their courtship days. . . Shocking. :D
All this definitely came at a price. You see this as their children grow older. Also, it rather deepens your guilt if you aren't a good record keeper. As I read this, I was torn between wishing that they had enjoyed the benefit of telephones. But at the same time if they had used telephones, they wouldn't have left behind these wonderful records.
P. S. Check out the sly little references in their courtship days. . . Shocking. :D
March 28, 2009
After reading "John Adams" by David McCullough, I was anxious to read this book and it was good but some of the letters written between John and Abigail were hard to understand. The author was not very good at explaining terms or conditions that were going on at the time. Also, although the author thought it was interesting to let the reader read the letters as they had been written by John and Abigail (including all mistakenly capitalized words, misspelled words and poor grammar), it made it hard to read sometimes.
Still, you can't help but be impressed by John and Abigail Adams' complete devotion to one another (especially Abigail's astounding patience and uncanny foreknowledge of the importance of what her husband was doing) and the influential role they both played in the founding of our country. Theirs is a great love story.
Still, you can't help but be impressed by John and Abigail Adams' complete devotion to one another (especially Abigail's astounding patience and uncanny foreknowledge of the importance of what her husband was doing) and the influential role they both played in the founding of our country. Theirs is a great love story.
May 27, 2009
I am biased because I'm obsessed with these two figures in American history, but I believe this is a must-read. If you take nothing else away from this collection, you will at least be floored by the eloquence, love, and passion that radiates from these letters. I actually got butterflies reading some of them. Some letters were a little less exciting, as they were little more than lists of instructions and things needed on the farm. However, to hear of things that actually happened through the eyes of two very real and influential people is just incredible. I'm so grateful that their letters were preserved, since it seems so much of our history gets destroyed.
July 6, 2009
The letters are an amazing mixture of political commentary and everyday concerns about their children, neighbors, extended family, and farm. Their writings have changed these famous figures into real people in my mind and heart. They endured so much and spent years of their married life apart. As compelling as the letters can be, I did have to force my way through the book at times. As other reviews have mentioned, it would have been very helpful to have more context from the editors within the text. There is a timeline at the end of the book.
February 25, 2009
It is a great historical novel at the same time I feel like I am infringing on a very personal relationship between John and Abigail Adams. The letters are elegantly written and a wonderful insight into the lives of those who were the first to shape our great country.
December 7, 2010
I thought it was an excellent book as it allowed me to connect to a great President and see his human side. John Adams is portrayed as a crank and these letters show the opposite.
January 9, 2018
I liked this book, but wish there had been a few more pieces of commentary to fill in the gaps, particularly during the times John and Abigail were together and not writing. John and Abigail had a sweet relationship. They were good writers. They expressed affection often. They relied on each other and were a support to each other even when they were far away.
I loved the reminder of the importance of communication. Letters are special. I thought it was funny when they mentioned a few times to be sure certain letters were burned. Obviously, they've survived and tell a story. ;) I have to admit that I'm grateful for the faster communication we enjoy today, but it does help to put things in perspective. John and Abigail lived in a simpler, but also more complex time. I enjoyed learning of momentous events of that time through their eyes, and to be reminded of the importance of communicating about the everyday things as well.
Here are a few of my favorite quotes:
"They happened to be living through the most tumultuous and consequential chapter in America's birth as a nation, when the core values were declared and the abiding institutions created. They happened to be centrally involved in these declarations and creations. They happened to preserve about 1,160 letters between them them, recording their thoughts and feelings with uncommon candor... And both of them happened to be, each in their own distinctive ways, prose stylists of equally uncommon felicity. If you want to understand how the American republic was improvised on the run, this is a seminal source. If you want to understand how a husband and wife can sustain their love over a lifetime of struggle and tragedy, this is a splendid story of an emotional and intellectual partnership that endured to the end. It is an epic tale about the making of American history and a great love story all rolled into one (p. vii)."
"Abigail and John Adams's correspondence spanning the years of 1762 to 1801, covers the most important forty years in American history. The monumental topics of revolution, independence, and nation building, with comments on many of the major personalities of the age, are woven into the fabric of these letters (p. xiii)."
"Abigail and John formed the best-known husband and wife partnership in American history. In 2006, a television dramatization of their relationship aptly promoted them as 'America's first power couple.' But when the minister's 14-year-old middle daughter met the farmer's 23-year-old eldest son in 1759, no one could have guessed that they would be so immortalized. While much of that fame stems from their important role in American history, some also arises from the survival of nearly twelve hundred of their letters--a remarkable window into their world and a testament to the importance of written correspondence played in the lives of people before the modern era of rapid travel and communication (p. xii)."
"'Now Letter-Writing is, to me, the most agreeable Amusement: and Writing to you the most entertaining an Agreeable of all Letter-Writing (John Adams, p. 1).'"
"John Adams to Abigail Smith,
Octr 4th. 1762,
'Miss Adorable... (p. 4).'"
"'I am, and till then, and forever after will be your Admirer and Friend, and Lover (John Adams, p. 12).'"
"'My Friend, I think I write to you every Day. Shall not I make my Letters very cheep; don't you light your pipe with them? I care not if you do, tis a pleasure to me to write (Abigail, p. 16).'"
"'On my dear Girl, I thank Heaven that another Fortnight will restore you to me--after so long a separation (John, p. 24).'"
"Abigail and John kept up a remarkably steady correspondence despite the hazards of war and British attempts to intercept their letters (p. 37)."
"'The great distance between us, makes the time appear very long to me.... The great anxiety I feel for my country for you and for our family renders the day tedious, and the Night unpleasant (Abigail, p. 38).'"
"'I am anxious for our perplexed, distressed Province--hope they will be directed into the right Path.... Resignation to the Will of Heaven is our only Resource in such dangerous Times. Prudence and Caution should be our Guides. I have the strongest Hopes, that We shall yet see, a clearer Sky, and better Times (John, p. 40).'"
"'The education of our Children is never out of my Mind. Train them to Virtue habituate them to industry, activity, and Spirit (John, p. 40).'"
"'Phyladelphia, Octr. 9. 1774, My Dear, I am wearied to Death with the Life I lead. The Business of the Congress is tedious, beyond Expression. This Assembly is like no other that ever existed. Every Man is a great Man--an orator, a Critick, a statesman and therefor every Many upon every Question must shew his oratory, his Criticism and his Political abilities (John, p. 48).'"
"'Our Prospect of a Union of the Colonies, is promising indeed. Never was there such a Spirit. Yet I feel anxious, because, there is always more Smoke than Fire--more Noise than Musick (John, p. 54).'"
"Phyladelphia June 17 1775, I can now inform you that the Congress have made Choice of the modest and virtuous, the amiable, generous and brave George Washington Esqr, to be the General of the American Army, and that he is to repair as soon as possible to the Camp before Boston. This appointment will have a great Effect, in cementing and securing the Union of these Colonies (John, p. 59).'"
"'Sunday June 18 1775, Dearest Friend, The Day, perhaps the decisive Day is come on which the fate of America depends.... The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong--but the God of Israel is he that giveth strength and power unto his people. Trust in him at all times ye people pour out your hearts before him. God is a refuge for us (Abigail, p. 63).'"
"'My pen is always freer than my tongue. I have wrote many things to you that I suppose I never could have talk'd (Abigail, p. 86).'"
"'My Opinion of the Duties of Religion and Morality, comprehends a very extensive Connection with society at large, and the great Interest of the public. Does not natural Morality, and much more Christian Benevolence, make it our indispensible Duty to lay ourselves out, to serve our fellow Creatures to the Utmost of our Power, in promoting and supporting those great Political systems, and general Regulations upon which the Happiness of Multitudes depends. The Benevolence, Charity, Capacity and Industry which exerted in private Life, would make a family a Parish or a Town Happy, employed upon a larger Scale, in Support of the great Principles of Virtue and freedom of political Regulations might seure whole Nations and Generations from Misery, Want and Contempt. Public Virtues, and political Qualities therefore should be incessantly cherished in our children (John, p. 88).'"
"'Friendship I have for others is far unequal to that which warms my Heart for you (John, p. 91).'"
"'The Events of War are uncertain: We cannot insure Success, but We can deserve it (John, p. 97).'"
"'I am Charmed with the Sentiments of Common Sense; and wonder how an honest Heart, one who wishes the welfare of their country, and the happiness of posterity can hesitate one moment at adopting them; I want to know how those sentiments are received in Congress? I dare say there would be no difficulty in procuring a vote and instructions from all the Assemblies in New England for independancy. I most sincerely wish that now in the Lucky Minuet it might be done (Abigail, p. 99).'"
"'May 14 1776, I set down to write you a Letter wholy Domestick with out one work of politcks or an thing of the Kind, and tho you may have matters of infinately more importance before you, yet let it come as a relaxation to you (Abigail, p. 117).'"
"'I have some Thoughts of petitioning the General Court for Leave to bring my Family, here. I am a lonely, forlorn, Creature here.... Among all the Disappointments, and Perplexities, which have fallen to my share in Life, nothing has contributed so much to support my Mind, as the choice Blessing of a Wife, whose Capacity, enabled her to comprehend, and whose pure Virtue obliged her to approve the Views of her Husband. This has been the cheering Consolation of my Heart, in my most solitary gloomy and disconsolate Hours (John, p. 119).'"
"'Philadelphia July 3, 1776, Yesterday the greatest Question was decided, which ever was debated in America, and a greater perhaps, never was or will be decided among Men. A Resolution was passed without one dissenting Colony 'that these united Colonies, are, and of Right ought to be free and independent States, and as such, they have, and of Right ought to have full Power to make War, conclude Peace, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things, which other States may rightfully do.' You will see in a few days a Declaration setting forth the Causes, which have impell'd Us to this mighty Revolution, and the Reasons which will justify it, in the Sight of God and Man (John, p. 122).'"
"'The Second Day of July 1776, will be the most memorable Epocha, in the History of America. I am apt to believe that it will be celebrated, by succeeding Generations, as the great anniversary Festival. It ought to be commemorated, as the Day of Deliverance by solemn Acts and Devotion to God Almighty. It ought to be solemnized with Pomp and Parade with shews, Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of the Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more (John, p. 125).'"
"'your Letters never fail to give me pleasure, be the subject what it will, yet it was greatly heightened by the prospect of the future happiness and glory of our Country; nor am I a little Gratified when I reflect that a person so nearly connected with me has has the Honour of Being a principal actor, in laying a foundation for its future Greatness. May the foundation of our New constitution, be justice Truth and Righteousness. Like the wise Mans house may it be founded upon those Rocks and then neither storms or temptests will overthrow it (Abigail, p. 129).'"
"'This Country knows not, and never can know the Torments, I have endured for its sake (John, p. 142).'"
"'Your Sentiments of the Importance of Education in Women, are exactly agreeable to my own (John, p. 145).'"
"'I never was more desirous of hearing from Home, and never before heard so seldom (John, p. 167).'"
"'I really think this Letter would make a curious figure if it should fall into the Hands of any person but yourself--an pray if it comes safe to you, burn it (Abigail, p. 170).'"
"'Tis ten days I believe since I wrote you a Line, yet not ten minutes passes without thinking of you (Abigail, p. 172).'"
"'no Temporary absence can ever wean or abate the ardor of my affection (Abigail, p. 181).'"
"'Adieu dearest of Friends adieu--yours most affectionately (Abigail, p. 189).'"
"'Philadelphia July 28 1777, My dearest Friend, Never in my whole Life, was my Heart affected with such Emotions and Sensations, as were this Day occasioned by your Letters of the 9. 10. 11. and 16 of July. Devoutly do I return Thanks to God, whose kind Providence has preserved to me a Life that is dearer to me than all other Blessings in this World. Most fervently do I pray, for a Continuance of his Goodness in the compleat Restoration of my, best Friend to perfect Health (John, p. 190).'"
"'It seems to be the Intention of Heaven, that We should be taught the full Value of our Liberty by the dearness of the Purchase, and the Importance of public Virtue by the Necessity of it (John Adams, p. 201).'"
"'Truth must be attended to (John, p. 213).'"
"'By your Letter, and another, I suspect that Parties are forming among you (John, p. 219).'"
"'May Heaven permit you and me to enjoy the cool Evening of Life, in Tranquility, undisturbed by the Cares of Politicks or War--and above all with the sweetest of all Reflections that neither Ambition nor Vanity, nor Avarice, nor Malice nor Envy nor Revenge, nor Fear nor any base Motive, or sordid Passion through the whole course of this mighty Revolution, and the rapid impetuous Course of great and terrible Events that have attended it, have drawn Us aside from the Line of our Duty and the Dictates of our Consciences! Let Us have Ambition enough to keep our Simplicity, or Frugality and our Integrity and transmit these Virtues as the fairest of Inheritances to our Children (John, p. 237).'"
"'If God should please to restore me once more to your fireside, I will never again leave it without your Ladyship Company (John, p. 254).'"
"'Should we at this day possess those invaluable Blessings transmitted us by our venerable Ancestors, if they had not informed by their example, what they taught by their precepts (Abigail, p. 256)?'"
"'I never know how to close, because I can never express the Tenderness I feel (John, p. 266).'"
"'And may you my dearest Friend, return to your loved solitude with the pleasing reflextion of having contributed to the happiness of Millions (Abigail, p. 280).'"
"'You know your Man. He will never....accommodate his Principles, sentiments or Systems, to keep a Place, or to get a Place, no nor o please his Daughter, or his Wife. He will never depart from his Honour, his Duty, no nor his honest Pride for Coaches, Tables, God Power or Glory (John, p. 291).'"
"'If Congress would determine to continue me in Europe, I must intreat you to come to me, for I assure you, my Happiness depends so much upon it, that I am determined, if you decline coming to me, to come to you (John, p. 300).'"
"'The Presidents Behaviour was in Character, and consequently charming to all I write no Particulars, because the News papers will give you the details. His Reception has been cordial and Splendid. His Journey will do much public good (John, p. 331).'"
"There is a three-year break in the correspondence at this point. After John completed his two-month trip to Massachusetts in late 1789, he and Abigail were not separated again until John left Abigail in Braintree upon his return to Philadelphia in late 17982. Other than the years in Europe, this is the longest period they spent together since John left for the First Continental Congress in 1774 (p. 332).”
“‘I would not entertain you with this political Title tattle, if I had any thing of more importance to say. One Thing of more importance to me, but no News to you is that I am yours with unabated Esteem and affection forever (John, p. 333).’”
“‘Present me affectionatly to all my Friends particularly to Mrs Washington whom I both Love and respect (Abigail, p. 342).’”
“‘You know my mind is much occupied with the affairs of our Country. If as a Female I may be calld Idle, I never can be an uninterested Spectator of what is transacting upon the great Theater, when the welfare and happiness of my Children and the rising generation is involved in the present counsels and conduct of the Principal Actors who are now exhibiting upon the stage (Abigail, p. 346).’”
“John’s frustration with his life in Philadelphia during these years filled his letters. The emergence of political parties, increasing sectional disputes, and the growing influence of Revolutionary France upon Americans, especially the Democratic-Republican opposition, troubled him (p. 353).”
“‘I can never be sufficiently thankful to you for your constant unwearied Attention and tender care of my Mother. I hope that you will be very careful of your own Health and not suffer your Solicitude and Exertions to go beyond your Strength (Abigail, p. 363).’”
“‘Thanks to the Father of the Rain, and the Bountifull dispencer of the dews of Heaven, who has plentifully waterd the dry and thirsty Earth (Abigail, p. 3710.’”
“‘It is proper that I should apprize you, that the President has it in contemplating to Send your son to Holland, that you may recollect yourself and prepare for the Event (John, p. 373).’”
“In January 1796, word began to circulate in Philadelphia that George Washington intended to retire, making John the heir apparent. This development changed the temper of Abigail and John’s correspondence and caused them to weight the consequences for both of them of his possible election (p. 397).”
“‘I have this day however heard News that is of some Importance. It must be kept a Secret wholly to yourself. One of the Ministry told me to day that the President was solemnly determined to serve no longer than the End of his present Period (John, p. 398).’”
“‘This is one of my red Letter Days. It is the Anniversary of the Signature of the Declaration of an Armistice between The U.S. and G. Britian, in 1783. There are Several of these Days in my Calandar, which I recollect as they pass in review, but which nobody else remembers. And indeed it is no otherwise worth my while to remember them than to render an Ejaculation of Gratitude to Providence for the Blessing (John, p. 399).’”
“‘Quincy Febry 8 1797, ‘The Sun is drest in Brighest Beams To give thy Honours to the Day.’ And may it prove an auspicious prelude to each ensuing Season. You have this day to declare yourself Head of A Nation. And now O Lord my God thou hast made they servant ruler over the people, give unto him an understanding Heart, that he may know how to go out, and come in before this great people, that he may discern between good and bad, for who is able to judge this, thy so great people (Abigail, p. 436)?’”
“‘I never write nor Talk upon Divinity…. Benevolence and Beneficence, Industry, Equity and Humanity Resignation and submission, Repentance and Reformation are the Essence of my Religion (John, p. 467).’”
“‘Before I end my Letter I pray Heaven to bestow the best of Blessings on this House and all that shall hereafter inhabit it. May none but honest and wise Men ever rule over this roof (John, p. 473).’”
“‘Washington 2. November 1818. My ever dear and revered Father, By a Letter from my Son John, I have this day been apprized, of that afflictive dispensation of Providence, which has bereft you of the partner of your life; me of the tenderest and most affectionate of Mothers, and our species, of one whose existence was Virtue, and whose life was a perpetual demonstration of the moral excellence of which human nature is susceptible. How shall I offer you consolation for your loss, when I feel that my own is irreparable (John Quincy Adams, p. 478)?’”
I loved the reminder of the importance of communication. Letters are special. I thought it was funny when they mentioned a few times to be sure certain letters were burned. Obviously, they've survived and tell a story. ;) I have to admit that I'm grateful for the faster communication we enjoy today, but it does help to put things in perspective. John and Abigail lived in a simpler, but also more complex time. I enjoyed learning of momentous events of that time through their eyes, and to be reminded of the importance of communicating about the everyday things as well.
Here are a few of my favorite quotes:
"They happened to be living through the most tumultuous and consequential chapter in America's birth as a nation, when the core values were declared and the abiding institutions created. They happened to be centrally involved in these declarations and creations. They happened to preserve about 1,160 letters between them them, recording their thoughts and feelings with uncommon candor... And both of them happened to be, each in their own distinctive ways, prose stylists of equally uncommon felicity. If you want to understand how the American republic was improvised on the run, this is a seminal source. If you want to understand how a husband and wife can sustain their love over a lifetime of struggle and tragedy, this is a splendid story of an emotional and intellectual partnership that endured to the end. It is an epic tale about the making of American history and a great love story all rolled into one (p. vii)."
"Abigail and John Adams's correspondence spanning the years of 1762 to 1801, covers the most important forty years in American history. The monumental topics of revolution, independence, and nation building, with comments on many of the major personalities of the age, are woven into the fabric of these letters (p. xiii)."
"Abigail and John formed the best-known husband and wife partnership in American history. In 2006, a television dramatization of their relationship aptly promoted them as 'America's first power couple.' But when the minister's 14-year-old middle daughter met the farmer's 23-year-old eldest son in 1759, no one could have guessed that they would be so immortalized. While much of that fame stems from their important role in American history, some also arises from the survival of nearly twelve hundred of their letters--a remarkable window into their world and a testament to the importance of written correspondence played in the lives of people before the modern era of rapid travel and communication (p. xii)."
"'Now Letter-Writing is, to me, the most agreeable Amusement: and Writing to you the most entertaining an Agreeable of all Letter-Writing (John Adams, p. 1).'"
"John Adams to Abigail Smith,
Octr 4th. 1762,
'Miss Adorable... (p. 4).'"
"'I am, and till then, and forever after will be your Admirer and Friend, and Lover (John Adams, p. 12).'"
"'My Friend, I think I write to you every Day. Shall not I make my Letters very cheep; don't you light your pipe with them? I care not if you do, tis a pleasure to me to write (Abigail, p. 16).'"
"'On my dear Girl, I thank Heaven that another Fortnight will restore you to me--after so long a separation (John, p. 24).'"
"Abigail and John kept up a remarkably steady correspondence despite the hazards of war and British attempts to intercept their letters (p. 37)."
"'The great distance between us, makes the time appear very long to me.... The great anxiety I feel for my country for you and for our family renders the day tedious, and the Night unpleasant (Abigail, p. 38).'"
"'I am anxious for our perplexed, distressed Province--hope they will be directed into the right Path.... Resignation to the Will of Heaven is our only Resource in such dangerous Times. Prudence and Caution should be our Guides. I have the strongest Hopes, that We shall yet see, a clearer Sky, and better Times (John, p. 40).'"
"'The education of our Children is never out of my Mind. Train them to Virtue habituate them to industry, activity, and Spirit (John, p. 40).'"
"'Phyladelphia, Octr. 9. 1774, My Dear, I am wearied to Death with the Life I lead. The Business of the Congress is tedious, beyond Expression. This Assembly is like no other that ever existed. Every Man is a great Man--an orator, a Critick, a statesman and therefor every Many upon every Question must shew his oratory, his Criticism and his Political abilities (John, p. 48).'"
"'Our Prospect of a Union of the Colonies, is promising indeed. Never was there such a Spirit. Yet I feel anxious, because, there is always more Smoke than Fire--more Noise than Musick (John, p. 54).'"
"Phyladelphia June 17 1775, I can now inform you that the Congress have made Choice of the modest and virtuous, the amiable, generous and brave George Washington Esqr, to be the General of the American Army, and that he is to repair as soon as possible to the Camp before Boston. This appointment will have a great Effect, in cementing and securing the Union of these Colonies (John, p. 59).'"
"'Sunday June 18 1775, Dearest Friend, The Day, perhaps the decisive Day is come on which the fate of America depends.... The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong--but the God of Israel is he that giveth strength and power unto his people. Trust in him at all times ye people pour out your hearts before him. God is a refuge for us (Abigail, p. 63).'"
"'My pen is always freer than my tongue. I have wrote many things to you that I suppose I never could have talk'd (Abigail, p. 86).'"
"'My Opinion of the Duties of Religion and Morality, comprehends a very extensive Connection with society at large, and the great Interest of the public. Does not natural Morality, and much more Christian Benevolence, make it our indispensible Duty to lay ourselves out, to serve our fellow Creatures to the Utmost of our Power, in promoting and supporting those great Political systems, and general Regulations upon which the Happiness of Multitudes depends. The Benevolence, Charity, Capacity and Industry which exerted in private Life, would make a family a Parish or a Town Happy, employed upon a larger Scale, in Support of the great Principles of Virtue and freedom of political Regulations might seure whole Nations and Generations from Misery, Want and Contempt. Public Virtues, and political Qualities therefore should be incessantly cherished in our children (John, p. 88).'"
"'Friendship I have for others is far unequal to that which warms my Heart for you (John, p. 91).'"
"'The Events of War are uncertain: We cannot insure Success, but We can deserve it (John, p. 97).'"
"'I am Charmed with the Sentiments of Common Sense; and wonder how an honest Heart, one who wishes the welfare of their country, and the happiness of posterity can hesitate one moment at adopting them; I want to know how those sentiments are received in Congress? I dare say there would be no difficulty in procuring a vote and instructions from all the Assemblies in New England for independancy. I most sincerely wish that now in the Lucky Minuet it might be done (Abigail, p. 99).'"
"'May 14 1776, I set down to write you a Letter wholy Domestick with out one work of politcks or an thing of the Kind, and tho you may have matters of infinately more importance before you, yet let it come as a relaxation to you (Abigail, p. 117).'"
"'I have some Thoughts of petitioning the General Court for Leave to bring my Family, here. I am a lonely, forlorn, Creature here.... Among all the Disappointments, and Perplexities, which have fallen to my share in Life, nothing has contributed so much to support my Mind, as the choice Blessing of a Wife, whose Capacity, enabled her to comprehend, and whose pure Virtue obliged her to approve the Views of her Husband. This has been the cheering Consolation of my Heart, in my most solitary gloomy and disconsolate Hours (John, p. 119).'"
"'Philadelphia July 3, 1776, Yesterday the greatest Question was decided, which ever was debated in America, and a greater perhaps, never was or will be decided among Men. A Resolution was passed without one dissenting Colony 'that these united Colonies, are, and of Right ought to be free and independent States, and as such, they have, and of Right ought to have full Power to make War, conclude Peace, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things, which other States may rightfully do.' You will see in a few days a Declaration setting forth the Causes, which have impell'd Us to this mighty Revolution, and the Reasons which will justify it, in the Sight of God and Man (John, p. 122).'"
"'The Second Day of July 1776, will be the most memorable Epocha, in the History of America. I am apt to believe that it will be celebrated, by succeeding Generations, as the great anniversary Festival. It ought to be commemorated, as the Day of Deliverance by solemn Acts and Devotion to God Almighty. It ought to be solemnized with Pomp and Parade with shews, Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of the Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more (John, p. 125).'"
"'your Letters never fail to give me pleasure, be the subject what it will, yet it was greatly heightened by the prospect of the future happiness and glory of our Country; nor am I a little Gratified when I reflect that a person so nearly connected with me has has the Honour of Being a principal actor, in laying a foundation for its future Greatness. May the foundation of our New constitution, be justice Truth and Righteousness. Like the wise Mans house may it be founded upon those Rocks and then neither storms or temptests will overthrow it (Abigail, p. 129).'"
"'This Country knows not, and never can know the Torments, I have endured for its sake (John, p. 142).'"
"'Your Sentiments of the Importance of Education in Women, are exactly agreeable to my own (John, p. 145).'"
"'I never was more desirous of hearing from Home, and never before heard so seldom (John, p. 167).'"
"'I really think this Letter would make a curious figure if it should fall into the Hands of any person but yourself--an pray if it comes safe to you, burn it (Abigail, p. 170).'"
"'Tis ten days I believe since I wrote you a Line, yet not ten minutes passes without thinking of you (Abigail, p. 172).'"
"'no Temporary absence can ever wean or abate the ardor of my affection (Abigail, p. 181).'"
"'Adieu dearest of Friends adieu--yours most affectionately (Abigail, p. 189).'"
"'Philadelphia July 28 1777, My dearest Friend, Never in my whole Life, was my Heart affected with such Emotions and Sensations, as were this Day occasioned by your Letters of the 9. 10. 11. and 16 of July. Devoutly do I return Thanks to God, whose kind Providence has preserved to me a Life that is dearer to me than all other Blessings in this World. Most fervently do I pray, for a Continuance of his Goodness in the compleat Restoration of my, best Friend to perfect Health (John, p. 190).'"
"'It seems to be the Intention of Heaven, that We should be taught the full Value of our Liberty by the dearness of the Purchase, and the Importance of public Virtue by the Necessity of it (John Adams, p. 201).'"
"'Truth must be attended to (John, p. 213).'"
"'By your Letter, and another, I suspect that Parties are forming among you (John, p. 219).'"
"'May Heaven permit you and me to enjoy the cool Evening of Life, in Tranquility, undisturbed by the Cares of Politicks or War--and above all with the sweetest of all Reflections that neither Ambition nor Vanity, nor Avarice, nor Malice nor Envy nor Revenge, nor Fear nor any base Motive, or sordid Passion through the whole course of this mighty Revolution, and the rapid impetuous Course of great and terrible Events that have attended it, have drawn Us aside from the Line of our Duty and the Dictates of our Consciences! Let Us have Ambition enough to keep our Simplicity, or Frugality and our Integrity and transmit these Virtues as the fairest of Inheritances to our Children (John, p. 237).'"
"'If God should please to restore me once more to your fireside, I will never again leave it without your Ladyship Company (John, p. 254).'"
"'Should we at this day possess those invaluable Blessings transmitted us by our venerable Ancestors, if they had not informed by their example, what they taught by their precepts (Abigail, p. 256)?'"
"'I never know how to close, because I can never express the Tenderness I feel (John, p. 266).'"
"'And may you my dearest Friend, return to your loved solitude with the pleasing reflextion of having contributed to the happiness of Millions (Abigail, p. 280).'"
"'You know your Man. He will never....accommodate his Principles, sentiments or Systems, to keep a Place, or to get a Place, no nor o please his Daughter, or his Wife. He will never depart from his Honour, his Duty, no nor his honest Pride for Coaches, Tables, God Power or Glory (John, p. 291).'"
"'If Congress would determine to continue me in Europe, I must intreat you to come to me, for I assure you, my Happiness depends so much upon it, that I am determined, if you decline coming to me, to come to you (John, p. 300).'"
"'The Presidents Behaviour was in Character, and consequently charming to all I write no Particulars, because the News papers will give you the details. His Reception has been cordial and Splendid. His Journey will do much public good (John, p. 331).'"
"There is a three-year break in the correspondence at this point. After John completed his two-month trip to Massachusetts in late 1789, he and Abigail were not separated again until John left Abigail in Braintree upon his return to Philadelphia in late 17982. Other than the years in Europe, this is the longest period they spent together since John left for the First Continental Congress in 1774 (p. 332).”
“‘I would not entertain you with this political Title tattle, if I had any thing of more importance to say. One Thing of more importance to me, but no News to you is that I am yours with unabated Esteem and affection forever (John, p. 333).’”
“‘Present me affectionatly to all my Friends particularly to Mrs Washington whom I both Love and respect (Abigail, p. 342).’”
“‘You know my mind is much occupied with the affairs of our Country. If as a Female I may be calld Idle, I never can be an uninterested Spectator of what is transacting upon the great Theater, when the welfare and happiness of my Children and the rising generation is involved in the present counsels and conduct of the Principal Actors who are now exhibiting upon the stage (Abigail, p. 346).’”
“John’s frustration with his life in Philadelphia during these years filled his letters. The emergence of political parties, increasing sectional disputes, and the growing influence of Revolutionary France upon Americans, especially the Democratic-Republican opposition, troubled him (p. 353).”
“‘I can never be sufficiently thankful to you for your constant unwearied Attention and tender care of my Mother. I hope that you will be very careful of your own Health and not suffer your Solicitude and Exertions to go beyond your Strength (Abigail, p. 363).’”
“‘Thanks to the Father of the Rain, and the Bountifull dispencer of the dews of Heaven, who has plentifully waterd the dry and thirsty Earth (Abigail, p. 3710.’”
“‘It is proper that I should apprize you, that the President has it in contemplating to Send your son to Holland, that you may recollect yourself and prepare for the Event (John, p. 373).’”
“In January 1796, word began to circulate in Philadelphia that George Washington intended to retire, making John the heir apparent. This development changed the temper of Abigail and John’s correspondence and caused them to weight the consequences for both of them of his possible election (p. 397).”
“‘I have this day however heard News that is of some Importance. It must be kept a Secret wholly to yourself. One of the Ministry told me to day that the President was solemnly determined to serve no longer than the End of his present Period (John, p. 398).’”
“‘This is one of my red Letter Days. It is the Anniversary of the Signature of the Declaration of an Armistice between The U.S. and G. Britian, in 1783. There are Several of these Days in my Calandar, which I recollect as they pass in review, but which nobody else remembers. And indeed it is no otherwise worth my while to remember them than to render an Ejaculation of Gratitude to Providence for the Blessing (John, p. 399).’”
“‘Quincy Febry 8 1797, ‘The Sun is drest in Brighest Beams To give thy Honours to the Day.’ And may it prove an auspicious prelude to each ensuing Season. You have this day to declare yourself Head of A Nation. And now O Lord my God thou hast made they servant ruler over the people, give unto him an understanding Heart, that he may know how to go out, and come in before this great people, that he may discern between good and bad, for who is able to judge this, thy so great people (Abigail, p. 436)?’”
“‘I never write nor Talk upon Divinity…. Benevolence and Beneficence, Industry, Equity and Humanity Resignation and submission, Repentance and Reformation are the Essence of my Religion (John, p. 467).’”
“‘Before I end my Letter I pray Heaven to bestow the best of Blessings on this House and all that shall hereafter inhabit it. May none but honest and wise Men ever rule over this roof (John, p. 473).’”
“‘Washington 2. November 1818. My ever dear and revered Father, By a Letter from my Son John, I have this day been apprized, of that afflictive dispensation of Providence, which has bereft you of the partner of your life; me of the tenderest and most affectionate of Mothers, and our species, of one whose existence was Virtue, and whose life was a perpetual demonstration of the moral excellence of which human nature is susceptible. How shall I offer you consolation for your loss, when I feel that my own is irreparable (John Quincy Adams, p. 478)?’”
May 12, 2012
Wow, FINALLY finishing this book of letters feels like a huge accomplishment! Though it took me a few months, this collection of John + Abigail Adams' letters is by no means boring. What a treasure trove of information, affection, personal events and political opinions - there's nothing like them! And during a time where women weren't included in the public sphere, John and Abigail had a wonderful relationship - John asked for and needed Abigail's sound advice on just about every big decision he made. He truly treated her and loved her as an equal. These letters were a priceless, inside, behind-the-scenes look not only at colonial family life, but at the making of our country as well. John Adams was there from the beginning, supported by his wife before the Revolutionary War began. Their opinions and thoughts on the people and events around them are just amazing.
From their letters, I also realized how lucky we are to have such instant communication - email, skype, phones, texting, etc. When J + A were apart for months or years at a time, they waited months for news from across the ocean. I can't imagine!! Being separated from a loved one (husband AND son) for that long would be hard enough, but without constant communication would be almost unbearable. But that was the order of the day, and people seemed more patient and accepting of it as the way things are. Weather played a big part in their letters too, for the success of their farm depended on it. Adams just wanted to be a farmer and enjoy his bit of land, but didn't get to until after his presidency. It's incredible how many years were spent in the service of our country at the expense of his own enjoyment and time with his family. He even mentions in a later letter that he feels it might not have been the best thing for his family to have been away so much. Truly, those who founded our nation were required to sacrifice very much.
Here are some favorite quotes from J + A's letters (with original spellings):
Relying on no one but himself to support his family: "I shall...exert an Industry and Frugality, a hard Labour, that will serve my family, if I cant serve my Country. I will not lie down and die in Dispair. If I cannot serve my Children by the Law, I will serve them by Agriculture, by Trade, by some Way, or other. I thank God I have a Head, an Heart and Hands which if once fully exerted alltogether, will succeed in the World..." -JA, 1774
Advising A on the education of their children: "The education of our Children is never out of my Mind. Train them to Virtue habituate them to industry, activity, and Spirit. Make them consider every Vice, as shamefull and unmanly: fire them with ambition to be usefull...fix their Ambition upon great and solid Objects - and their Contempt upon little, frivolous, and useless ones." -JA,1774
Abigail on slavery: "I wish most Sincerely there was not a Slave in the province. It allways appeard a most iniquitous Scheme to me, fight ourselfs for what we are daily robbing and plundering from those who have as good a right to freedom as we have. You know my mind upon this subject." -AA, 1774
Abigail on the war: "If we expect to inherit the blessings of our Fathers, we should return a little more to their primitive Simplicity of Manners, and no sink into inglorious ease. We have too many high sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them." (how we need to hear this now!) -AA, 1774
John on General G.W.: "I can now inform you that the Congress have made Choice of the modest and virtuous, the amiable, generous and brave George Washington Esqr, to be the General of the American Army...This appointment will have a great Effect, in cementing and securing the Union of these Colonies...The Liberties of America depend upon him, in a great Degree." -JA, 1775
John on the war: "We are convinced that the Designs against Us, are hostile and sanguinary, and that nothing but Fortitude, Vigour, and Perseverance can save Us. But America is a great, unwieldy Body. its Progress is slow. It is like a large Fleet sailing under Convoy. The fleetest Sailors must wait for the dullest and slowest...We have appointed a continental Fast. Millions will be upon their Knees at once before their great Creator, imploring his Forgiveness and Blessing, his Smiles on American Councils and Arms." -JA, 1775
John on the burning of Charlestown: "Your description of the distresses of the worthy Inhabitants of Boston, and the other Sea Port Towns, is enough to melt an Heart of stone. Our Consolation must be this, my dear, that Cities may be rebuilt, and a People reduced to Poverty, may acquire fresh Property: But a Constitution of Government once changed from Freedom, can never be restored. Liberty once lost is lost forever. When the People once surrender their Share in the Legislature, and their Right of defending the Limitations upon the Government, and of resisting every Encroachment upon them, they can never regain it." -JA, 1775
Abigail on women's education: "Your sentiments of the Importance of Education in Women, are exactly agreable to my own...In reading History you will generally observe, when you light upon a great Character whether a General, a Statesman, or Philosopher, some female about him either in the Character of a Mother, Wife, or Sister, who has Knowledge and Ambition above the ordinary Level of Women, and that much of his Emminence is owing to her Precepts, Example, or Instigation, in some shape or other." -AA,1776
Abigail on the battle for Long Island: "But if we should be defeated I think we shall not be conquered. A people fired like the Romans with Love of their Country and of Liberty a zeal for the publick Good, and Noble Emulation of Glory, will not be disheartned or dispirited by a succession of unfortunate Events. But like them may we learn by Defeat the power of becomeing invincible." -AA, 1776
John on himself: "As much as i converse with Sages and Heroes, they have very little of my Love or Admiration. I should prefer the Delights of a Garden to the Dominion of a World. I have nothing of Caesars Greatness in my soul. Power has not my Wishes in her Train. The Gods, by granting me Health, and Peace and Competence, the Society of my Family and Friends, the Perusal of my Books, and the Enjoyment of my Farm and Garden, would make me as happy as my Nature and State will bear." -JA, 1777
John speaks to us: "Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a good Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it." -JA, 1777
John on independence: "It seems to be the Intention of Heaven, that We should be taught the full Value of our Liberty by the dearness of the Purchase, and the Importance of public Virtue by the Necessity of it." -JA, 1778
John on $$: "It is indeed true, every where, that those who attend to small Expences are always rich." -JA, 1780
John to his sons: "Boys! if you ever Say one Word, or utter one Complaint I will disinherit you. Work you Rogues and be free. You will never have so hard Work to do as Papa has had." (I love it.) -JA, 1783
Abigail on the state of the colonies: "Heaven Avert that like the Greek Republicks we should by civil discension weaken our power, and crush our rising greatness; that the Blood of our citizens, should be shed in vain; and the labour, and toil, of our statesmen; be finally bafled; through niggardly parsimony; Lavish prodigality; or Ignorance of our real Interest. We want a soloman in wisdom, to guide and conduct this great people; at this critical acre, when the counsels which are taken, and the measures which are persued; will mark our future Character either with honour, and Fame, or disgrace, and infamy;...Heaven forbid, that we should grow giddy with prosperity, or the height to which we have soared, render a fall conspicuously fatal." -AA, 1783
From their letters, I also realized how lucky we are to have such instant communication - email, skype, phones, texting, etc. When J + A were apart for months or years at a time, they waited months for news from across the ocean. I can't imagine!! Being separated from a loved one (husband AND son) for that long would be hard enough, but without constant communication would be almost unbearable. But that was the order of the day, and people seemed more patient and accepting of it as the way things are. Weather played a big part in their letters too, for the success of their farm depended on it. Adams just wanted to be a farmer and enjoy his bit of land, but didn't get to until after his presidency. It's incredible how many years were spent in the service of our country at the expense of his own enjoyment and time with his family. He even mentions in a later letter that he feels it might not have been the best thing for his family to have been away so much. Truly, those who founded our nation were required to sacrifice very much.
Here are some favorite quotes from J + A's letters (with original spellings):
Relying on no one but himself to support his family: "I shall...exert an Industry and Frugality, a hard Labour, that will serve my family, if I cant serve my Country. I will not lie down and die in Dispair. If I cannot serve my Children by the Law, I will serve them by Agriculture, by Trade, by some Way, or other. I thank God I have a Head, an Heart and Hands which if once fully exerted alltogether, will succeed in the World..." -JA, 1774
Advising A on the education of their children: "The education of our Children is never out of my Mind. Train them to Virtue habituate them to industry, activity, and Spirit. Make them consider every Vice, as shamefull and unmanly: fire them with ambition to be usefull...fix their Ambition upon great and solid Objects - and their Contempt upon little, frivolous, and useless ones." -JA,1774
Abigail on slavery: "I wish most Sincerely there was not a Slave in the province. It allways appeard a most iniquitous Scheme to me, fight ourselfs for what we are daily robbing and plundering from those who have as good a right to freedom as we have. You know my mind upon this subject." -AA, 1774
Abigail on the war: "If we expect to inherit the blessings of our Fathers, we should return a little more to their primitive Simplicity of Manners, and no sink into inglorious ease. We have too many high sounding words, and too few actions that correspond with them." (how we need to hear this now!) -AA, 1774
John on General G.W.: "I can now inform you that the Congress have made Choice of the modest and virtuous, the amiable, generous and brave George Washington Esqr, to be the General of the American Army...This appointment will have a great Effect, in cementing and securing the Union of these Colonies...The Liberties of America depend upon him, in a great Degree." -JA, 1775
John on the war: "We are convinced that the Designs against Us, are hostile and sanguinary, and that nothing but Fortitude, Vigour, and Perseverance can save Us. But America is a great, unwieldy Body. its Progress is slow. It is like a large Fleet sailing under Convoy. The fleetest Sailors must wait for the dullest and slowest...We have appointed a continental Fast. Millions will be upon their Knees at once before their great Creator, imploring his Forgiveness and Blessing, his Smiles on American Councils and Arms." -JA, 1775
John on the burning of Charlestown: "Your description of the distresses of the worthy Inhabitants of Boston, and the other Sea Port Towns, is enough to melt an Heart of stone. Our Consolation must be this, my dear, that Cities may be rebuilt, and a People reduced to Poverty, may acquire fresh Property: But a Constitution of Government once changed from Freedom, can never be restored. Liberty once lost is lost forever. When the People once surrender their Share in the Legislature, and their Right of defending the Limitations upon the Government, and of resisting every Encroachment upon them, they can never regain it." -JA, 1775
Abigail on women's education: "Your sentiments of the Importance of Education in Women, are exactly agreable to my own...In reading History you will generally observe, when you light upon a great Character whether a General, a Statesman, or Philosopher, some female about him either in the Character of a Mother, Wife, or Sister, who has Knowledge and Ambition above the ordinary Level of Women, and that much of his Emminence is owing to her Precepts, Example, or Instigation, in some shape or other." -AA,1776
Abigail on the battle for Long Island: "But if we should be defeated I think we shall not be conquered. A people fired like the Romans with Love of their Country and of Liberty a zeal for the publick Good, and Noble Emulation of Glory, will not be disheartned or dispirited by a succession of unfortunate Events. But like them may we learn by Defeat the power of becomeing invincible." -AA, 1776
John on himself: "As much as i converse with Sages and Heroes, they have very little of my Love or Admiration. I should prefer the Delights of a Garden to the Dominion of a World. I have nothing of Caesars Greatness in my soul. Power has not my Wishes in her Train. The Gods, by granting me Health, and Peace and Competence, the Society of my Family and Friends, the Perusal of my Books, and the Enjoyment of my Farm and Garden, would make me as happy as my Nature and State will bear." -JA, 1777
John speaks to us: "Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a good Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it." -JA, 1777
John on independence: "It seems to be the Intention of Heaven, that We should be taught the full Value of our Liberty by the dearness of the Purchase, and the Importance of public Virtue by the Necessity of it." -JA, 1778
John on $$: "It is indeed true, every where, that those who attend to small Expences are always rich." -JA, 1780
John to his sons: "Boys! if you ever Say one Word, or utter one Complaint I will disinherit you. Work you Rogues and be free. You will never have so hard Work to do as Papa has had." (I love it.) -JA, 1783
Abigail on the state of the colonies: "Heaven Avert that like the Greek Republicks we should by civil discension weaken our power, and crush our rising greatness; that the Blood of our citizens, should be shed in vain; and the labour, and toil, of our statesmen; be finally bafled; through niggardly parsimony; Lavish prodigality; or Ignorance of our real Interest. We want a soloman in wisdom, to guide and conduct this great people; at this critical acre, when the counsels which are taken, and the measures which are persued; will mark our future Character either with honour, and Fame, or disgrace, and infamy;...Heaven forbid, that we should grow giddy with prosperity, or the height to which we have soared, render a fall conspicuously fatal." -AA, 1783
December 30, 2018
I read the collection of letters between John and Abigail Adams in conjunction with my book club’s discussion of David McCullough’s “John Adams.” I highly recommend this approach because the reader only gets snippets (well-selected and enlightening, but snippets all the same) of the correspondence between two brilliant founders of the United States.
When I was in school, not much was made of Abigail Adams and her support of the second President; theirs was a true partnership. The letters also provide glimpses of home front life during the Revolutionary War. From our modern perspective, in which communication is instantaneous, and often thoughtless, reading beautifully-written letters that may take months to reach the recipient is a marvel. Would we all not benefit from handwriting more than an annual Christmas letter (I don’t even do that) both to document our thoughts and to slow down and express thoughts to our friends and family?
The editors provide enough context to the collection so that readers unfamiliar with John and Abigail or that period of history have enough information to understand outside events without getting in the way of these two wonderful people.
When I was in school, not much was made of Abigail Adams and her support of the second President; theirs was a true partnership. The letters also provide glimpses of home front life during the Revolutionary War. From our modern perspective, in which communication is instantaneous, and often thoughtless, reading beautifully-written letters that may take months to reach the recipient is a marvel. Would we all not benefit from handwriting more than an annual Christmas letter (I don’t even do that) both to document our thoughts and to slow down and express thoughts to our friends and family?
The editors provide enough context to the collection so that readers unfamiliar with John and Abigail or that period of history have enough information to understand outside events without getting in the way of these two wonderful people.
January 8, 2021
I read this compilation as a follow-up to David
McCullough’s John Adams bio....
It is personal and private, it is political. There are surprises and perhaps most unexpected was the Adam’s vocab...esp Abigail’s. She was politically savvy and her advice was sought after by JA while they were separated for extensive periods of time. He was emotional in his writings, more so than she. She wrote exhaustively, long loooong letters, all by hand obviously, and the opposite was true of JA. He was often unapologetically succinct and occasionally dictatorial. Pre-1800 relationship standards were maybe slightly less respectful within the confines of relationships. They clearly were devoted to each other, however...more than expected evidence of that!
McCullough’s John Adams bio....
It is personal and private, it is political. There are surprises and perhaps most unexpected was the Adam’s vocab...esp Abigail’s. She was politically savvy and her advice was sought after by JA while they were separated for extensive periods of time. He was emotional in his writings, more so than she. She wrote exhaustively, long loooong letters, all by hand obviously, and the opposite was true of JA. He was often unapologetically succinct and occasionally dictatorial. Pre-1800 relationship standards were maybe slightly less respectful within the confines of relationships. They clearly were devoted to each other, however...more than expected evidence of that!
January 16, 2023
“My Dearest Friend,
…should I draw you the picture of my Heart, it would be what I hope you still would Love; tho it contained nothing new; the early possession you obtained there; and the absolute power you have ever maintained over it; leaves not the smallest space unoccupied. I look back to the early days of our acquaintance; and Friendship, as to the days of Love and Innocence; and with an indescribable pleasure I have seen near a score of years roll over our Heads, with an affection heightened and improved by time — nor have the dreary years of absence in the smallest degree effaced from my mind the Image of the dear untitled man to whom I gave my Heart…”
…should I draw you the picture of my Heart, it would be what I hope you still would Love; tho it contained nothing new; the early possession you obtained there; and the absolute power you have ever maintained over it; leaves not the smallest space unoccupied. I look back to the early days of our acquaintance; and Friendship, as to the days of Love and Innocence; and with an indescribable pleasure I have seen near a score of years roll over our Heads, with an affection heightened and improved by time — nor have the dreary years of absence in the smallest degree effaced from my mind the Image of the dear untitled man to whom I gave my Heart…”
November 9, 2021
I've never been one to pass up reading someone else's correspondence. Great intrigue, gossip, with a hint of salaciousness.
March 14, 2019
Fascinating! The letters are riveting. These 2 truly loved each other they were in agony when they were separated. Luckily for those interested, they were apart a lot. They were funny too.
I thought this was the book for my book club. It wasn’t. The book club book was a biography of Abigail with the same name. The other book is okay - it has information about the times when the Adams were together. Given the option, read this book!
I thought this was the book for my book club. It wasn’t. The book club book was a biography of Abigail with the same name. The other book is okay - it has information about the times when the Adams were together. Given the option, read this book!
December 6, 2018
This was such an interesting idea and I really wish it had been easier to read. I loved that these editors decided to keep the majority of the letters between Abigail and John as well as keep everything in their own words, rather than other books that have spliced the letters so much you aren't quite sure if the context was altered. This book was refreshing and real by choosing to include all the letters.
However, it was difficult to read since it's 18th century English. There are so many references, words and phrases that are difficult to understand or interpret. Although the editors did add some background information between some letters, it was a bit sparingly in my opinion. I would have appreciated a few more explanations or short summaries before some letters just so I could understand more what they were discussing before reading the letters. I believe I would have enjoyed it more if I didn't often get lost.
It is amazing though to actually see how difficult it was to be married back then when one spouse was traveling. Sometimes they didn't hear from each other for several months, and if might be a letter that was short or opened and partially stolen. Not knowing your loved one is dead or alive for 6 months must have been extremely taxing and the fact you did not see your loved one for years but still were devoted is so admirable and shows what true love really means.
Definitely an interesting historic read, but I do think it got to be a bit too long since the letters were in their entirety and often I found myself lost since they were writing about so many random topics that didn't have context other than to each other. I'd recommend it, but warn someone that it can be a bit dry and long at times.
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However, it was difficult to read since it's 18th century English. There are so many references, words and phrases that are difficult to understand or interpret. Although the editors did add some background information between some letters, it was a bit sparingly in my opinion. I would have appreciated a few more explanations or short summaries before some letters just so I could understand more what they were discussing before reading the letters. I believe I would have enjoyed it more if I didn't often get lost.
It is amazing though to actually see how difficult it was to be married back then when one spouse was traveling. Sometimes they didn't hear from each other for several months, and if might be a letter that was short or opened and partially stolen. Not knowing your loved one is dead or alive for 6 months must have been extremely taxing and the fact you did not see your loved one for years but still were devoted is so admirable and shows what true love really means.
Definitely an interesting historic read, but I do think it got to be a bit too long since the letters were in their entirety and often I found myself lost since they were writing about so many random topics that didn't have context other than to each other. I'd recommend it, but warn someone that it can be a bit dry and long at times.
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March 29, 2009
Only one hundred pages left (of 479) and I'm giving up on this book. It has been a very interesting read and I have learned a lot about John and Abigail Adams by reading their letters, but I'm burned out. The letters use the original spelling and punctuation and things like Fryday and dutifull and inteligance make my hand itch for a red pen. Also, there is only brief biographical information at the beginning of each chapter and I am finding that there a lot of the time I just don't understand what they are talking about.
So, my suggestion is to buy a biography of these folks and pass on this book. But I will share a few of the things I learned about their incredible relationship:
* They spent a large portion of their marriage apart. Their longest separation was 5 years. (The winter of 1779 when John Adams left to garner support for the new republic in Europe until the summer of 1784 when Abigail met him in London.)
* Letters were incredibly unreliable between Europe and America. One letter arrived one year after the date it was written. Many never arrived.
* Over 1,000 letters between John and Abigail Adams have survived and are available today.
I do feel very grateful for the sacrifices they made for our country. In one letter, John Adams says he hopes we appreciate it: "Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a god Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it."
So, my suggestion is to buy a biography of these folks and pass on this book. But I will share a few of the things I learned about their incredible relationship:
* They spent a large portion of their marriage apart. Their longest separation was 5 years. (The winter of 1779 when John Adams left to garner support for the new republic in Europe until the summer of 1784 when Abigail met him in London.)
* Letters were incredibly unreliable between Europe and America. One letter arrived one year after the date it was written. Many never arrived.
* Over 1,000 letters between John and Abigail Adams have survived and are available today.
I do feel very grateful for the sacrifices they made for our country. In one letter, John Adams says he hopes we appreciate it: "Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a god Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it."
December 2, 2009
Letters! How History is enriched by the personal corresponde nce of it's key players. What will be the current generation's contribution? E-mails, Text messages. Tweets (grin)
Octr 4th. 1762
John Adams to Abigail
"Miss Adorable"
Braintree, March 31, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"I desire you would Remember the Ladies, and be more generous and favorable
to them than your ancestors."
August 14, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"If much depends as is allowed upon the early Education of youth and the first principals which are instilld take the deepest root, great benifit must arrise from litirary accomplishments in women."
Sepbr 23, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"My Pen is my only pleasure, and writing to you the composure of my mind."
Saturday Evening 26 April 1777
John Adams to Abigail Adams
"Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a good Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it."
Octr 4th. 1762
John Adams to Abigail
"Miss Adorable"
Braintree, March 31, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"I desire you would Remember the Ladies, and be more generous and favorable
to them than your ancestors."
August 14, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"If much depends as is allowed upon the early Education of youth and the first principals which are instilld take the deepest root, great benifit must arrise from litirary accomplishments in women."
Sepbr 23, 1776
Abigail Adams to John Adams
"My Pen is my only pleasure, and writing to you the composure of my mind."
Saturday Evening 26 April 1777
John Adams to Abigail Adams
"Posterity! You will never know, how much it cost the present Generation, to preserve your Freedom! I hope you will make a good Use of it. If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven, that I ever took half the Pains to preserve it."
Want to read
October 6, 2010Reading this one with Abigail and John for context. John and Abigail Adams come highly recommended, but I didn't want to read them when I was happily single because I didn't want to start pining for what I didn't have. Now that I'm in a happy relationship, it seems safe enough.
So far, I find these letters sweet, tender, and occasionally, unexpectedly, hysterical. Abigail to John: "But heigh day Mr. whats your Name? Who taught you to threaten so vehemently 'A Character besides that of critick, in which if I never did, I always hereafter shall fear you.'" Too funny. And then John replies with a list of her faults, including not playing cards enough, "sitting with the Leggs across," and the "Habit of Reading, Writing and Thinking." I wasn't expecting them to be so playful, and I'm glad I'm reading the biography, or I might not have realized he was joking.
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Loved this book but out of time. Definitely want to finish it sometime, along with Abigail and John: Portrait of a Marriage. Left off p. 24--just start over.
So far, I find these letters sweet, tender, and occasionally, unexpectedly, hysterical. Abigail to John: "But heigh day Mr. whats your Name? Who taught you to threaten so vehemently 'A Character besides that of critick, in which if I never did, I always hereafter shall fear you.'" Too funny. And then John replies with a list of her faults, including not playing cards enough, "sitting with the Leggs across," and the "Habit of Reading, Writing and Thinking." I wasn't expecting them to be so playful, and I'm glad I'm reading the biography, or I might not have realized he was joking.
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Loved this book but out of time. Definitely want to finish it sometime, along with Abigail and John: Portrait of a Marriage. Left off p. 24--just start over.
August 24, 2023
Imagine being in love and rebels during America's Revolutionary Era and having no other way to communicate than letters carried by horseback. These two folks lived it daily. From John's long trips back and forth to Pennsylvania by horse and buggy, to Abigail's having to decide how to handle the local cannon-fire of Boston, these two share their heart for each other as they not only live history but also become it. Some of their letters are missing because they qualified as 'intelligence' and were sought after by the British. For this reason they also quite frequently had to employ cloaked meanings and code words into their communications. During these tumultuous years they still had the worries and joys of daily life and also did not escape personal tragedy.
When I read this book, I was not only placed within a bird's-eye view of American Revolutionary Era history, I saw first-hand the sacrifices Abigail and John Adams made individually and as a couple. It's hard to fathom how much they sacrificed without reading their letters to each other.
When I read this book, I was not only placed within a bird's-eye view of American Revolutionary Era history, I saw first-hand the sacrifices Abigail and John Adams made individually and as a couple. It's hard to fathom how much they sacrificed without reading their letters to each other.
February 28, 2012
This book is a compilation of the letters written between Abigail and John Adams from the time they were courting all the way through their presidency.
I loved reading about their insights during all of the different things that they experienced personally and politically. It was interesting to see their dreams and hopes and the ups and downs that they went through. They were indeed ordinary people called to handle extraordinary things.
I will say though that I had a really hard time getting through all of it. I'm not sure how it could have been put together better because although I would have liked to have had their letters put more into context it would have made the book even longer and after a month of trying to push through it I had to stop for now, figuring I could always choose to finish it at another time.
I loved reading about their insights during all of the different things that they experienced personally and politically. It was interesting to see their dreams and hopes and the ups and downs that they went through. They were indeed ordinary people called to handle extraordinary things.
I will say though that I had a really hard time getting through all of it. I'm not sure how it could have been put together better because although I would have liked to have had their letters put more into context it would have made the book even longer and after a month of trying to push through it I had to stop for now, figuring I could always choose to finish it at another time.
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November 9, 2014This is the single most interesting thing I have read all year. It is a history refresher full of spellbinding suspense ("John, I haven't slept in two days because of the cannonfire..."), interest (the whole family being innoculated for smallpox, a five-week process not considered successful until you were actually sick), intrigue (frank appraisals of such familiar figures as Washington, Jefferson, and Franklin), pathos (Abigail having to tell her absent husband about their stillborn daughter). And it is also just letters between two people, both good writers, who genuinely seem to like each other. It is amazing to read what people tell themselves in times of war and uncertainty. Even now, thinking about modern revolutions all over the world, I am surprised at the way this one was conducted and amazed at the type of government we got. Can't really recommend this enough.
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